Jade

Brett and I were together 9 months in total; 6 months of pure heaven and 3 months of living hell but 9 glorious months of bliss.
Destiny drew me to him and then eventually took him away again. My love for him was a pure one – I never gave up on him and I never looked at another whilst I was with him. He was my first love and a love I shall certainly remember. Everything about him was special and I will always cherish those moments we shared together.
I have felt remorse about the past; he is no longer my lover or friend. I wonder sometimes if I’d have acted differently, maybe he would still be a part of my life but that is something I shall never know, so why waste time thinking about it?
It seems he was a dream, as though we were never together in the first place, as though it was too good to be true, that’s the hardest thing.
But what’s meant to be is meant to be and I guess he was just another learning stone to my big ‘one’. So what have I learnt from this relationship?
- I have discovered a new romantic side to myself.
- I have learnt your friends and families are the ones who will always be there.
- How to let people go.
- How to heal a broken heart and give it to someone else.
- How to love my life even when love has left me.
- That I don’t need a man, I just want one.
- How to forgive.
- How not to act when you split up.
- To be sure before you finish someone.
- Never give up fighting for the one you love.
- Always tell the person you love, that you love them.
- That sometimes the timing isn’t right and circumstances can weaken the strongest love.
- That true love can exist even if it’s only a one-sided thing.
- That love at first sight is real.
- That passion can last.
- Never to take back a cheat.
- To accept it’s over when things won’t get any better.
Now it’s time to carry on with my life. Who knows, maybe one day Brett and I will cross paths again but I’m not holding my breath. I just hope he’s well and happy. Now I’m moving on and have found myself a new guy. We are taking things slowly but I can feel myself beginning to like him more and more as time goes on. Time is a healer.

I was with this amazing guy Brett for 9 months. I really did love him and I still do now. I think I always will. We split up about a month ago and by now I’ve accepted we are truely over. I’m dating a new man and I just don’t feel anything for him. I feel bad about this. I’m continuing seeing this guy to see if my feelings change for him but I don’t think they will. Me and my new man share the same friends now and it’s going to be really hard to walk away from. I start dating my new man 15 days after splitting from my ex. I think I’ve tried moving on too soon.

My ex and I kept finishing because after about 5 months into our relationship, he rang up my best friend telling her he fancied her when he was pissed and ever since then I wasn’t able to trust him and felt so insecure that I kept telling him it was over. In the end, we kept arguing and eventually I finished him one too many times and now he won’t take me back.
I feel so devasted. It still feels so unreal that we are over. It feels like a nightmare that I’m going to wake up from but the worst thing is, I know I’m not going to wake up from it. I don’t talk about him anymore, I pretend I’m over him. I always think about him and just pray he’ll ring me up and take me back.

I did everything to try to get him back. I text him telling him how I felt, I rang him as if nothing was wrong just like we used to, I went up his house to see if he’d change his mind but all in vein.

We were meant to stay friends when we split. I made him promise after 3 months of seeing each other because he meant so much to me but I rang him up about 2 weeks ago and he wasn’t making any sense. He accused me of doing things with one of my best friends who is also one of my ex’s, he brought up the time i went down a guys house who I knew liked me (although nothing happened) to get back at him for him hurting me by telling my other best friend he liked her, he got funny with me when I said I was looking for a boyfriend and asked me to stay on the phone longer…...Then he brought up the fact he was seeing a girl a few days later whom he liked who already had a boyfriend, he told me he didn’t think it was a good idea us staying friends and then he said he’d ring me in about a months time.

I need some advice.
No.1:Can I get this man back or is it too late? And if so, how?
No.2:How can I convince him to stay friends with me?
No.3:Why was he acting so funny on the phone?

Omg absoultely knackered…...zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Just came back from another run. Tried to run as fast as I could. A minute faster per mile now than I was about 2 months ago. Fab achievement. Lets hope I continue to improve and avoid those injuries!!!