I'm doing 42 things
You need to keep yourself busy with a job, hobbies, and housework etc. If you find yourself getting depressed or lonely for various reasons maybe because you are going through something that no one relates to you need to link up with those who relate. Google www.dailystrength.com Daily Strength is an online support group for those people going through tough times whether it be a divorce, an illness or any other problem. www.meetup.com is also good if you want to meet up with other people like you who share similar interests, whether it be seeing movies, practicing a foreign language or anything else that you like. Voluntary work is also a great way to break down loneliness, contribute to the community and meet people.
Visiting lonely people in hospitals or old folk living alone is also a great idea.
glitterati5's Life List
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1. do my best at whatever I attempt
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2. Stop spending money on things i dont need
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3. be more positive
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4. Say the right thing at the right time
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5. stop worrying so much
702 people -
6. Be on time
948 people -
7. learn from my mistakes
365 people -
8. improve my appearance
245 people -
9. Let go of the past
1,583 people -
10. drink more water
19,051 people -
11. cook
353 people -
12. take my camera with me wherever I go so I can get those photos that keep getting away
38 people -
13. ice skate
126 people -
14. excercise regularly
393 people -
15. lose weight and keep it off
1,022 people -
16. read novels again
2 people -
17. Go on a road trip
3,503 people -
18. sort out my superannuation
7 people -
19. thoroughly clean the house and then keep it clean
64 people -
20. learn to sew
3,656 people -
21. Learn to play the guitar
12,679 people -
22. learn to sing well
248 people -
23. Become a better public speaker
309 people -
24. re-learn french
429 people -
25. Learn Spanish
15,548 people -
26. do the splits
2,016 people -
27. Learn Salsa Dancing
266 people -
28. work for myself
456 people -
29. build my own website
587 people -
30. find a better job
541 people -
31. pay off my debt
2,094 people -
32. Be financially independant
355 people -
33. go snowboarding
693 people -
34. give more
191 people -
35. travel the world
18,581 people -
36. make music
899 people -
37. Travel in South America
66 people -
38. be in a band
1,485 people -
39. Learn to play the piano
7,474 people -
40. write a book
26,173 people -
41. have my own house
228 people -
42. have a baby
5,748 people
Recent entries
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2 years ago
I was so lonely
2 years ago
I used to arrange outings with lots of people all the time. I was an extremely needy person. I should realise that some people have their own lives going on and do not want to go out constantly like I did. I am no longer reliant on friends who don’t return calls. Nor do I worry about them. I have found ways to meet up with people who are more sociable, but have learned to appreciate being alone as well.
