grlnxtdr

thinks it will all work itself out



I'm doing 40 things
 

grlnxtdr's Life List

  1. 1. Challenge all 43ers to light a candle to help STOP child pornography at www.lightamillioncandles.com
    1 entry . 11 cheers
    16 people
  2. 2. dance
    11 entries . 17 cheers
    2,333 people
  3. 3. be good
    1 entry . 8 cheers
    122 people
  4. 4. Quit smoking cigarettes
    2 entries . 106 cheers
    206 people
  5. 5. know it when I see it
    7 entries . 21 cheers
    2 people
  6. 6. kill them with kindness
    20 cheers
    5 people
  7. 7. be a better friend to that person
    2 entries . 12 cheers
    3 people
  8. 8. trust again
    1 entry . 11 cheers
    68 people
  9. 9. stay calm even when provoked
    4 entries . 39 cheers
    13 people
  10. 10. use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without
    1 entry . 35 cheers
    30 people
  11. 11. see a leprechaun
    25 cheers
    3 people
  12. 12. annoy annoying people
    5 entries . 28 cheers
    1 person
  13. 13. make them proud
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    8 people
  14. 14. make myself happy
    4 entries . 11 cheers
    119 people
  15. 15. just do it
    1 entry . 11 cheers
    123 people
  16. 16. write an entry on all of my Things
    10 cheers
    1 person
  17. 17. write about it
    4 entries . 8 cheers
    1 person
  18. 18. feel the fear and do it anyway
    10 cheers
    448 people
  19. 19. take this fucked up experience and *DO* something with it
    4 entries . 13 cheers
    1 person
  20. 20. inspire myself
    3 entries . 6 cheers
    6 people
  21. 21. stop procrastinating!!!!!!
    4 cheers
    26,996 people
  22. 22. visit auschwitz
    8 cheers
    106 people
  23. 23. Address misspellings
    5 entries . 5 cheers
    1 person
  24. 24. disclose 43 random THINGS about myself
    9 entries . 5 cheers
    77 people
  25. 25. get off the computer
    2 cheers
    70 people
  26. 26. Try out 43 new recipes
    2 entries . 10 cheers
    8 people
  27. 27. Say Hi to one new person a day.
    1 cheer
    1 person
  28. 28. Stay positive.
    1 cheer
    169 people
  29. 29. Help Cathibeth get 15000 hits on Flickr
    1 cheer
    1 person
  30. 30. Be a better daughter.
    786 people
  31. 31. be even stronger
    1 cheer
    1 person
  32. 32. Be a good wife
    597 people
  33. 33. Tell Flirt how bright she makes our lives.
    1 person
  34. 34. Save the world
    1,358 people
  35. 35. Beat them at their own game.
    1 person
  36. 36. Judge less.
    1 cheer
    75 people
  37. 37. Get back into 43Things, cuz it's awesome.
    1 cheer
    1 person
  38. 38. Do my Flylady for the day and post here
    3 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  39. 39. Keep this good feeling going
    4 entries . 7 cheers
    1 person
  40. 40. Get everyone in Maine and Beyond to support same sex marriage (b/c equality means everyone) by voting NO on 1 this November
    1 person

How I did it
How to celebrate with grlnxtdr who had a birthday on september 17th!
It took me
35 years
It made me
Happy as hell


How to go camping more often.
It took me
9999 days
It made me
sad, but lighter


How to scare the hell out of someone by convincingly faking my own death
It took me
9 months
It made me
sad


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Recent entries
disclose 43 random THINGS about myself (read all 9 entries…)
I spent 72 hours in jail. 2 months ago

It was terrible. I’m not cut out for jail. The first night, they took away my glasses because supposedly I was a suicide risk (no way!). I was in “the hole”, totally blind, listening to the men go crazy. Scary.

The next day, I got the top bunk in a room with a really angry girl, who was plotting things to do to other people in there.

I read, and paced, and read and slept.

I was so out of my element it wasn’t even funny. I might as well have had a prom dress on. Thank the stars that I am somewhat likable, usually.

There was a little old lady who had bounced some checks, in there with the screaming, frustrated young women. I’m sorry, but elderly people should be in their own area. That was just wrong.

It was what it’s meant to be…terrible. And it was even worse than that. Some people have no sympathy for those that are incarcerated. I do. That was fucked and I was only there for 72 hours.



Provide lots of fun and welcome interruptions for Niel as he celebrates the BIG 40 on September 20th
The Donger says: What's happenin' hot stuff? 2 months ago

Happy birthday Neil!

And many MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE!!!



dance (read all 11 entries…)
A loss 3 months ago

Last night, we made it three for three. Usually, we skip Saturday because it’s too crowded, and we’ve already gone Wednesday and Friday. Saturday is pure hedonism.

I lost so much respect for a few of the regulars that we smile and hug and say Hi to. There was fighting, there was disrespect, there was nastiness. It was really sad.

It’s supposed to be a good time, drinking and laughing and dancing and seeing your friends. If you have a bad attitude, stay home. If you feel like fighting, get some help, you’re too angry. It wasn’t even a fair fight, and that was the worst thing of all. I felt physically ill.

Time to check out that new club that’s a little closer to home. Maybe they won’t be acting like savages there.



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