harrietelizabeth

First I need to get proposed to by my long time bf. But I want him to ask me, partly because I would never ever pressure him into it, and partly because I know that when he’s ready he’ll ask. We’ve had the marriage talk often, but he always refers to it as some distant event. My goal is to change to change his mind without knowing I’ve changed his mind. I just have to make marriage seem more enticing and desirable. Subtle like. Trying to build a plan…...

Ok, here’s the plan: My pregger sister wants to go after she’s lost the baby weight as a sort of hell-yeah-I’m-not-pregger-anymore-and-am-back-in-shape major victory. And some fun sister’s only time. So next spring we are planning a bad ass trip for the two of us. Hell yeah.

Maybe. This was gonna happen in between grad school and vet school, but lately we’ve been talking about China or South America instead. China is where the man wants to teach english for a year while I’m in vet school, so good to check the place out. South America would give us a chance to practice all the college spanish classes we’ve had and get to know the language better. So we’ll see.