When I get nervous, I stop breathing… and then I get more nervous! I need to make each slow breath conscientiously….
hbousq's Life List
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1. explore my city
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2. Turn into a unicorn
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3. be friends with a unicorn
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4. Write my entrance letter to grad school
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5. take a dance class
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6. Apply to grad schools
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7. Be a goddess
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8. organize
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9. find a girlfriend
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10. find a mermaid
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11. Have mermaid powers
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12. begin a structured practice
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13. Follow the Moon
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14. Have more patience with myself
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15. listen to my body
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16. Breathe
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17. Drive to the beach all by myself
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18. Kiss a Unicorn
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19. Kiss a Mermaid
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20. Stop caring what other people think of me
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21. visit a castle
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22. Write a children's book
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23. excersise regularly
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24. have a bisexual experience
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25. help the LGBT community
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26. Meet other bi people
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27. go to grad school
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28. get a great haircut
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29. stop procrastinating
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30. research colleges
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31. Wash my face every morning and night!
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32. be photographed nude
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33. Find a spiritual home
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34. Practice healthy consensual nonmonogamy
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35. work because I like to, not because I have to
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36. admit what I really want
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37. never apologize for being me
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38. become a psychologist
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39. get rid of my acne
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40. spend time in the woods - just being
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Don’t be afraid of your attraction to women. It’s so wonderful and beautiful to appreciate and notice your own attraction to another woman. I do and I am so proud of myself and it makes me feel good to finally admit that I like girls too. It is kinda scary at first because of the way our society thinks and a lot of times parents just assume that we are going to only like the opposite sex. But I believe that sexuality is fluid and it flows. Don’t be afraid.
Let me tell you what a wonderful woman once told me about this (in such a lovely and sensual voice if I must say): “Follow your intuition”. ;)
Girls are so pretty! Aren’t they?!!! :)
I have always been attracted to women. But the way my family raised me, they would not understand. It is almost like people assume that everyone is straight when they are growing up. Same sex attraction is completely normal and it took me a while to understand my feelings. But it feels SOO good to finally accept these feelings in myself… I even think of it as a beautiful part of myself. Can’t wait to find that right girl. :)
