it’s time to do this. i have told him. he wants reconciliation, but it is just not possible. his treatment of me was a definite ‘deal-breaker’.
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she had been generally unwell since i met her in 2000, and things went downhill in her last few months. my ex and his mom were really close, so i am deciding to put off pushing for a divorce so that i don’t add extra hurt and stress to his life right now. there is no really urgent need to do this right away. regardless of how he treated me in his darker moments he still deserves some compassion at a time like this.
this one will be difficult. ex is not cooperative, so it will be expensive. i want that chapter of my life CLOSED.