heaveemetal

The thoughts are there for you to find, but you never know which way I



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heaveemetal's Life List

  1. 1. Address my Mom's health problems sooner rather than later
    9 entries . 37 cheers
    1 person
  2. 2. articulate a personal code of ethics
    11 entries . 111 cheers
    31 people
  3. 3. Spend less time on my virtual life and more time living real life
    11 entries . 213 cheers
    3 people
  4. 4. deal with my "ISSUES"
    9 entries . 170 cheers
    5 people
  5. 5. Fall in love......again
    3 entries . 181 cheers
    28 people
  6. 6. have lots of emotionally and physically satisfying sex
    1 entry . 142 cheers
    10 people
  7. 7. Believe in the possibilities...
    7 entries . 242 cheers
    7 people
  8. 8. Raise the quality of my stupidity
    10 entries . 85 cheers
    1 person
  9. 9. assume nothing......and hope for everything.........
    5 entries . 217 cheers
    1 person
  10. 10. Succeed...or fail...but try without fear
    5 entries . 226 cheers
    6 people
  11. 11. Not hate
    6 entries . 205 cheers
    21 people
  12. 12. grow old disgracefully
    1 entry . 97 cheers
    74 people
  13. 13. quit taking life so friggin' seriously
    11 entries . 171 cheers
    36 people
  14. 14. appreciate the positive, minimize the negative
    7 entries . 133 cheers
    2 people
  15. 15. be tolerant of views different from mine, listen without judging, name calling, shouting down or disruption. What a more civilized world it would be.....
    8 entries . 168 cheers
    1 person
  16. 16. go skinny dipping
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    3,081 people
  17. 17. make intelligent decisions
    9 entries . 112 cheers
    3 people
  18. 18. find a fucking briefcase full of money
    4 entries . 115 cheers
    2 people
  19. 19. $ave $10,000.00 Dollar$
    2 entries . 87 cheers
    1 person
  20. 20. Mix up a Death in the Afternoon or 3
    1 entry . 34 cheers
    1 person
  21. 21. Make myself a hemp bracelet
    1 entry . 61 cheers
    3 people
  22. 22. Take a sauna with a guest
    2 entries . 54 cheers
    1 person
  23. 23. Make a new will
    2 entries . 62 cheers
    3 people
  24. 24. Write about some of the moments from my life in grade "B" movie script style
    47 entries . 74 cheers
    2 people
  25. 25. Invite more plants to live with me...they are my friends
    36 entries . 105 cheers
    1 person
  26. 26. Observe human nature
    29 entries . 87 cheers
    1 person
  27. 27. From time to time...pass along a public service announcement for our valued readers
    33 entries . 29 cheers
    1 person
  28. 28. List bits and pieces of conversations I overhear
    8 entries . 56 cheers
    3 people
  29. 29. Modify my 1996 Jeep Grand Cherokee
    4 entries . 21 cheers
    1 person
  30. 30. Make a few Heaveemetal style political ads and commercials
    13 entries . 17 cheers
    1 person
  31. 31. Find an OEM Honda AM FM CD deck for my car
    1 entry . 19 cheers
    1 person
  32. 32. Reflect when the mood strikes in my one sentence journal right here...cryptic isn't it?...
    31 entries . 28 cheers
    1 person
  33. 33. know more about whats going on in the world
    9 entries . 42 cheers
    3 people
  34. 34. Build some of my vinyl music collection on my hard drive
    2 entries . 29 cheers
    1 person
  35. 35. Post 43 photos taken with my cell phone...almost like a live feed of my life of man on the street interview...yeah, righhhhht
    7 entries . 20 cheers
    1 person
  36. 36. Do a 2009 holiday card exchange with my 43Things friends
    1 entry . 9 cheers
    53 people
  37. 37. Give Brightthunder lots of love and support during her cancer treatments
    1 entry . 8 cheers
    31 people
  38. 38. Celebrate Christmas through meaningful giving, as opposed to engaging in consumption for its own sake regardless of need.
    1 entry . 8 cheers
    22 people
  39. 39. Give 50,000 cheers!
    1 entry . 9 cheers
    1 person
  40. 40. 43Things Secret Santa
    1 entry . 5 cheers
    18 people
  41. 41. Denver 43 Meet-Up Monday December 14, 2009
    1 entry
    2 people

How I did it
How to be exposed to paid political advertising
It took me
35 years
It made me
suffer


How to fix my car door that was damaged when some low life broke into it
It took me
1 day
It made me
thrilled


Recent entries
Denver 43 Meet-Up Monday December 14, 2009
I'll be there... 6 hours ago

for 43 minutes hopefully at least.
Are you staying in the same area of town?...



Listen to music that "Damages my Soul"
When your soul... 7 hours ago

is already damaged.
Music such as this can be the spackling paste that smooths the imperfections and fills the voids.
The mere thought that some other people can or have felt the emotions and anxieties that you have is healing.
This song is a mild example of what I’m talking about.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tvAU2eqwNSY



be tolerant of views different from mine, listen without judging, name calling, shouting down or disruption. What a more civilized world it would be..... (read all 8 entries…)
Today in the morning...at one of my deliveries, 7 hours ago

there is a hard working young girl that is an employee
of one of the companies.
She is refreshing and friendly.
Her family is caring, loving and supportive.
They are members of the Mormon church
and are all excellent human beings.
She talks to everyone as being on an even plain of existence…an equal.
She works
and she goes to college.
MWF is work
and T TH is classes.
She pays her own tuition
We talk openly of philosophy
and of religion…and she shares
She brought me a Book Of Mormon and some supplemental literature.
I’ve never known any of the Mormon faith to talk openly with an “outsider”
She spoke to me of the criticism that is leveled at the church by some outsiders…
I told her that although I didn’t believe in the concept,
I did believe in the miracle of faith and love
that guides ones life with admirable values and goals.
What can be gained by mocking faith and belief?
Other than to hurt and belittle
when you don’t see the beauty that can exist.
Families and individuals like her and hers are shining examples of the good…
I am proud to say I have friends such as her
that can trust me to advise them when they may have a question or concern…
We have talked of many things.
She has told me of things she avoids.
We have talked about music…For to me, music is a force of great power.
I learned something from her today.
There was a suggestion of swapping mixed CD’s
She asked if the content of my CD for her would contain music that would damage her soul.
I thought long and hard about that…
Because a lot of the music I listen to soothes my damaged soul.
Hence the power it has.
I have never heard anything put the way she said it.
It was beautiful…



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