heymikey

I am an open-minded, straight, single, unattached and uninvolved male and I’ll be honest and up front about this… I Would Like to Date a Married Couple. This is something I’ve thought about a lot and have been wanting to do for a long time and since I’m unattached and not seeing anyone at the moment, it’s the right time in my life to become involved with a married couple. And yes, date and involved means the same in the case of a married couple as it does with a single woman… it means that we also have sex. I’m interested in an ongoing friendship with a secure married couple that includes getting together and doing normal everyday things like going out to dinner, to the movies, Barbe-ques, play pool, even bowling or just hanging out, but also includes socializing sexually. I have and have had many friendships with married couples that are platonic and we do all of those activities except socializing sexually. I am not poly-amorous. I’m not interested in living with a couple. Just dating them and them date me in a Menage a Trois relationship, which will include the sexual socializing the platonic friendships don’t include.

I am straight. Not bi or bi-curious and I’m not interested in any male/male contact. In socializing sexually she would be the center of attention and her husband and I will focus solely on her. When we socialize with other friends they know, the extent of our friendship can be kept just between us, but when the three of us go out together, she is out with both of us guys; her husband and me. She has us both on each of her arms and she’s not shy about sending the signal to other women that she’s with two guys and that when we go home later, she’ll have us both in bed with her to please her and only her.

I am serious about wanting to date a married couple and become involved in a Ménage à Trois relationship with them. I’ve made it a goal of mine to do so and I’m looking to find a couple interested in dating a single guy. It’s been a long time since I’ve been involved with anyone and it’s time to change that. If I am going to become involved in a relationship then it’s time to surrender to a long wanted, but long time suppressed desire; it’s time to date a couple. I would like to hear from others who share the interest, especially couples, and share views on this.

I can’t stop thinking about this, so… I am determined to make this a reality, so it is now up at the top of my list as a priority. It is my goal to sometime in the next 12 months move this from my “I’m Doing” into my “I’ve Done” completed category.

Any advice from married couples on how to read the signs that a couple is open to having a third join them would be greatly appreciated.

I did this several times during the course of a menage a trois relationship I had with two girls when I was in college.