holisticlia

wants to make a change



I'm doing 43 things
 

holisticlia's Life List

  1. 1. Make October the month for reaching goals
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    1 person
  2. 2. lose weight
    5 entries . 2 cheers
    32,176 people
  3. 3. make new friends
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    11,012 people
  4. 4. become more spiritual
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    314 people
  5. 5. reinvent myself
    278 people
  6. 6. do yoga daily
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    134 people
  7. 7. care less about what others think
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    97 people
  8. 8. be more confident
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    8,672 people
  9. 9. Find a balance between the things I want to do and the things I need to do
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    2,243 people
  10. 10. be organized
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    522 people
  11. 11. pay off credit cards
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    1,271 people
  12. 12. Write My Bookumentary
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    1 person
  13. 13. Step out of my comfort zone
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    189 people
  14. 14. learn more about naturopathy
    1 person
  15. 15. find work I'm passionate about
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    906 people
  16. 16. Read more books
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    9,692 people
  17. 17. expand my vocabulary
    2,318 people
  18. 18. Write more
    3,160 people
  19. 19. improve my skin
    1 entry
    168 people
  20. 20. Meet Adam Ant/ Stuart Goddard
    1 person
  21. 21. eliminate toxic people from my life
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    16 people
  22. 22. Get a dual Master's in Nutrition and Clinical Health Psychology
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    1 person
  23. 23. learn to sew
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    3,061 people
  24. 24. be more positive
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    1,811 people
  25. 25. learn spanish
    13,221 people
  26. 26. be happy
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    19,305 people
  27. 27. play the piano again
    424 people
  28. 28. learn to crochet/knit
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    3 people
  29. 29. To live instead of exist
    9,778 people
  30. 30. be someone's muse
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    200 people
  31. 31. get a henna tattoo
    97 people
  32. 32. save 6 months of living expenses
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    57 people
  33. 33. get more energy
    40 people
  34. 34. grow my hair to the middle of my back
    46 people
  35. 35. make trail mix cookies
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    1 person
  36. 36. forgive myself for the things I didn't do right in the past
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    1 person
  37. 37. become a tribal fusion bellydancer
    2 people
  38. 38. learn french
    8,803 people
  39. 39. Learn Japanese
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    8,616 people
  40. 40. become a wine connoisseur
    191 people
  41. 41. watch less tv
    1,669 people
  42. 42. Have a totally different life by this time next year
    884 people
  43. 43. get over him
    3 entries
    1,189 people
Recent entries
Make new friends (read all 2 entries…)
Untitled 6 hours ago

Joined a few networking groups on Meetup today. Maybe this will be the beginning to me completing this goal.
It’s been difficult meeting up with my old co worker so we haven’t done anything yet. I just need something to keep me busy and other options from my usual circle. It’s a drag depending on one person’s ability or willingness to go out…If she can’t or doesn’t want to go out, then I don’t go out. I can’t continue this because I’m forcing myself to have the life she does. If her husband doesn’t want to go out, she doesn’t go, causing me not to go out. If she has plans with her husband and three kids, I don’t have anything to do. I understand that she has other commitments, but I don’t have those attachments. Therefore, I must create other options. If I have to meet people online, and gawd forbid, go out by myself (I hate doing things alone) I will!



get over him (read all 3 entries…)
I think I'm getting there 6 hours ago

Though I think of him practically everyday, I don’t get that dropping of the heart feeling when I think of him. Well, sometimes I do, but for the majority of the time, I am able to let the thoughts of him pass without my heart dropping, getting deeply depressed for days on end, or crying. I definitely have my rough times, but now it seems as if they pass over more quickly than they did before. I’m sure part of the reason I still think of him as much as I do is because I have too much times of stillness going on, giving me nothing but time to think of him.
My current social status has not helped with the getting over him because the two people I’m close to are partnered up and can’t go anywhere without their significant others, but it’s understandable. I just wish that a separate group of singles to go out with and just be crazy and silly without pissing off their partner. So, to help with the social part of my life and in hopes for that speeding up the process of getting over him, today I joined some meetups and volunteering social groups online in hopes of meeting new people and getting out more. I’m not into meeting people to date, I’m mainly interested in meeting single females to go out and be goofy and have a good times as single gals. I have nothing against meeting a guy, but only if it’s as a friend…nothing more at this time.
I also plan on slowly getting into yoga. I’ve looked up a few yoga studios in the area and in the near future hope to check them out; another opportunity to stay busy and meet new people. Looks like this goal may result in my reaching an additional 4 goals!



get over him (read all 3 entries…)
Inhale, Exhale 1 week ago

He’s been entering into my thoughts (as usual), but I’ve noticed to not really fight the thoughts…just accept the thoughts by inhaling it in and exhaling him out of my system (letting go). I visualize the thoughts flowing out of me as I exhale. It may sound really cheesy, but it has been working so far, somehow…



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