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Can you still be friends with the one you love?
AND
can you move on…?
Okay well this is something I have been battling with for the past 12weeks now. Can I be friends? Well I look back and think how I was when I was a friend…a friend can just be someone you see occasionally that you dont call up or see but you would be nice to when you meet them and they would be nice to you and if they asked something of you would help them and likewise right?... thats a friend
but what happens when you have been best friends???so you called each other everyday? told each other everything? laughed, joked, were there for one another when it came to men/women and you had the same principle and views on life…
what happens- you fall in love?
then you want to be friends?!
if you try to go back to the best friends thing….its only ok ( i have decided ) if you are both truly over one another. so if he turned to me and said i love this other girl and need advice….would i be able to give it? Would I be able to be there and not want to kiss him? Would I be the total platonic best friend?
at the min- nooooo
but I do not want to do the cheap friendship either when we have been soooo much more.
I miss him.
His friendship means the world to me.
But then what kind of a friend am I if I can not give him time and myslef time to heal and so that we can both move on.???
its a grey area…I dont know if I will ever know the answer
