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How do you say sorry to your boyfriend when you’re fighting with him and you know it? How do you say it before it actually turns into a fight. I can always say sorry to anyone else, just not him.

I love my boyfriend of almost 3 years. He is so sweet to me. Sometimes I wish I didn’t love him this much because there are nights when I hold the phone, waiting for call or get angry or stressed when his family’s line is busy. Also, I want to talk to him every night, I love hearing his voice and talking to him. He says he does too but that it’s not that big of a deal if we don’t always talk. To me it is…how can I stop being like this and just be like him…get on with life and think about other things instead of him? He says he loves it and finds it cute that I’m like this but I know that this is ridiculous and should stop. But how? Is it stupid?

Hi there. I am 20 and my boyfriend, Nick is 19. We have been in love and going out for almost 3 years now and in the beginning we were soo strong in love it was unreal. We still are and aren’t less in love but we realize that our honeymoon stage is over because we have started fighting an awful lot once the second year anniversary hit. We don’t know why but maybe it just seems that our bad things finally showed up and we wanted to be more open about them towards each other. We used to fight with scratching, yelling, screaming, biting, pushing…not nice things and the worse thing is that I did most of this. I loved my boyfriend and he did me too he said so we decided that hurting each other is not nice and could endanger our relationship for a while. We still feel we are destined to be together and both agree that even if we know we will be fighting like this when we’re married we will still get married because that’s how much we love each other. It’s crazy. We don’t hurt anymore but we still scream, yell and ignore each other and say hurtful things almost EVERY single weekend which sucks and hurts but the making up which doesn’t take too long to get to once we’re both understanding is sooo great and it makes us feel like the fight never happened. But it did. We aren’t afraid of a break up but we’re sick of it and wish it would stop…our patience and our stubborness are always a huge part of it and we both have ADD which has some symptoms which make us fight. Last weekend we had another huge fight, a stupid one too, and this time we decided that if we fight during a weekend then he will drive me home or he’ll drive home right after making up and spending some time together to teach us both a cruel lesson. I pray this works. I also wonder if writing out “I will not fight with Nick” every night 100 times will work. Will it? How do we stop FIGHTING??? How do we talk to each other during a fight withiut blaming and yelling? Also, how do I get Nick to get to talk to me more than we do…the only time we talk is during or after a fight or at 11:00pm at night when we’re tired and comfy in each other’s arms. I am marrying this man but we want help for the future. Can anyone help us?