jaman

I think I may need some help or something . Lately I’ve been noticing more and more that I really have a pretty severe inferiority complex . I’m having allot of problems attracting women these days and that really heightens my feelings of a low self esteem . I guess I’ve always felt this to a certain extent my hole life , so there’s probably some childhood stuff there to . I find myself pretending like everything’s ok , and I try to act cool like nothings wrong but at this point its getting harder and harder to mask my true feelings about who I really think I am . I live in San Diego where the men to women ratio is now 3 guys to every girl and that doesn’t help ether . Also , I have a new female roommate that’s 26 years old and she is a stone fox . I guess I kinda got a thing for her , she is so hot ! and I can feel that low self esteem thing creeping up on me when I’m around her . She is real nice , but it bugs me that I cant be with her . Most the hot girls around here have quite a selection of guys , so , ( because I’m not 6/2 and don’t look like a marine that just returned from combat ) I don’t get much action . This sucks because girls can sense this , somehow they just know . Maybe its because of the fact that I don’t have any women around me . I’m not good at parties and don’t do well in clubs or bars ether . Don’t get me wrong , I’m not anti social but I do better in small groups with people that know me . I’m normally not the life of the party and have a hard time being around socially confident people without developing some feelings of insecurity . Should I see a shrink ?

I’m now dressing better do to a new job !

Just Believe In Who You Are , Grasp The Moment . Life at times can seem overwhelming , courage in our true selves is the only kea to lasting confidence .
Self esteem boosters ( tapes , hypnoses , Tony Robbins ) can really help you in these areas , they did me !
Push yourself to do the things that your afraid of in life , once you experience it for real , you will build confidence in that area and destroy fear . The more you think about a situation that scares you before you are actually in that situation the more your fears will creep up on you . Instead , try to keep your mind on other things , and if you do think about the situation try to think about confidence and success as you go in to the situation in your mind . Block out fear of failure to the point where your mind does not understand the words FAILURE OR FEAR . If you can accomplish this in just one fearful area of your life you will also see your fears in different areas subside also .