Guys, I had to add this to my list of 43things just so I could post an entry here. You shouldn’t try to get over your Asperger’s, you should accept and love yourselves for who you are. I just broke up with a boyfriend who has AS (I didn’t break up with him, he broke up with me) and it was because he hated himself and was too painfully aware of his “problems” when he was around me. So, after 4 years, he decided to turn into a complete jerk towards me so that he could be alone and not have to be aware of his problems anymore. I would give so much for him to be able to accept and love himself for who he is. Don’t hate yourself, it only causes problems for you and the people who love you.
Trying to rid yourself of how your brain works is futile, and anyway you are a great person, regardless of Asperger’s.
