jessurreal

He still loves me. He broke up with me on our 1 year anniversary. I had been caring for my dying grandmother all summer long, and that was stressful for the both of us. I also lost my job. He moved out (we never should have moved in together in the first place) He says he doesn’t want a relationship right now (like they all do) and he says he still loves me. He says he want to get back together, but it’s going to take him some time, a LONG time. I know I made a bunch of emotional mistakes with him, and he always tried to hwlp me, but I’d end up bringing him down with me. I am learning to control my emotion better, and I hope this is helping.
He calls me everyday, we still hang out, we still go out for karaoke, and we are still sleeping with eachother. It’s basically the same, he just doesn’t call me “honey” or give me a hug when I leave. I try to let him miss me, ignore his calls, for as long as possible. I don’t want to let him have his cake and eat it too, but to be honest, it makes me feel better when we are sexually intimate. He smiles at me and says I’m beautiful and that he loves me, but we are not together. I want him back, but I do not want him to live with me. I don’t get men. Why is he still acting like we’re in a relationship when he doesn’t want one? I want him back. I want to take things slow to build a future because he has all the qualities I want in a man, and more. And I love him very much. What should I do?

He broke up with me on our 1 year anniversary. I had been caring for my dying grandmother all summer long, and that was stressful for the both of us. I also lost my job. He moved out (we never should have moved in together in the first place) He says he doesn’t want a relationship right now (like they all do) and he says he still loves me. He says he want to get back together, but it’s going to take him some time, a LONG time. I know I made a bunch of emotional mistakes with him, and he always tried to hwlp me, but I’d end up bringing him down with me. I am learning to control my emotion better, and I hope this is helping.
He calls me everyday, we still hang out, we still go out for karaoke, and we are still sleeping with eachother. It’s basically the same, he just doesn’t call me “honey” or give me a hug when I leave. I try to let him miss me, ignore his calls, for as long as possible. I don’t want to let him have his cake and eat it too, but to be honest, it makes me feel better when we are sexually intimate. He smiles at me and says I’m beautiful and that he loves me, but we are not together. I want him back, but I do not want him to live with me. I don’t get men. Why is he still acting like we’re in a relationship when he doesn’t want one? I want him back. I want to take things slow to build a future because he has all the qualities I want in a man, and more. And I love him very much. What should I do?

Staying awake is awful. For the mind, body, and spirit. Whether it’s working, for the hell of it, partying, on drugs (especially on drugs), depriving one’s body of the sleep necessary for functioning properly takes a toll on a person. The cons definitely outweigh the pros on this one.