John Hoffoss

I’m already a pretty good husband, but the moment I stop trying is the moment I can no longer say that.

To those of you struggling with this one, I have one word of advice: listen.

Listen, then listen more. If you’re arguing, you’re not listening (and neither is she, most likely). But if you actively listen, put yourself in her shoes, make eye contact, repeat back what you think she just said, you will improve every facet of your relationship over time.

Random flowers never hurt, either. ;)

Make sure you get to Tsukiji Fish Market in Tokyo. And don’t miss Kyoto, either.

Go to them. Kthxbai.