I found out where people like me were hiding when I decided to get out and do something. It turns out, like many people, I had been waiting to be “found” or felt I would suddenly be inspired to find a clump of people “like me” hiding behind a building down the street. (Oh… there you are, we’ve been waiting for you!)
So, I’ve taken action…
First, I started taking courses, classes, seminars, going to meetings, meetups or any other group of two or more who were doing what I liked or wanted to learn more about. You’ll find motivated and interested friends there – keep them…
Second, I began to get interested in making a difference in the world and found many not-so-hidden people working their asses off to help others. They are great friends – keep them…
Third, I kept in touch with the friends I had and the friends I was making either in person or with a social networking site – one kind word every now and then works wonders to keep a friend. Also, friends have friends and, most likely, you’ll like your friends friends. Keep them too…
Fourth, take the chance to meet others everywhere you go; find out what’s interesting about them, what they’re good at and what they like. People are starved for attention today and someone who actually listens is rare. So… listen; and care – and keep them too…
Whether or not you find where all the people like you are hiding may not matter – you’ll be too busy with your friends!
