justagirl77

I just don’t get it, it’s like you hit 30 and all of a sudden guys are even worse than they were in highschool. What happened? Where are the gentlemen? I recently dated a man (he was 47) that would say he would do something (like, “I’m going to make you dinner on Monday”, let’s go for dinner this week”, “I’m going to hold Tuesday for you and make you dinner”) and then not do it…I wouldn’t even hear from him until after and he wouldn’t even say anything about the “plans” we had. I thought an older guy would be more mature and respectful of my time, untrue! I mean I know that we could never really work with the massive age difference, but I was totally into having a good time. All I asked for was for him to do what he said he would do, or at least let me know if it wasn’t going to happen..apparently that’s too much.

But, I won’t settle, nor do I think anyone should.

Are there any real men anymore?

I did my first deal!!!! Yay! It was for a friend…we looked at 25 houses – cRaZy, but totally worth it to be a part of her happiness! The house is perfect for her. I was sooooo happy when I realized this was the one for her. I just want to have that feeling every day!

Ok, so, I’m on the third CD and some of it is really sticking! Some points are looking at why you complain, is it for sympathy, attention, to brag? I have a bracelet that I wear (came with the book) and every time I complain I switch the bracelet. The goal is to go 21 days without complaining…so far I went 1!!! Haha! That’s ok; they say it can take 7 months to get to 21 consecutive days. As soon as you complain and switch the bracelet you start counting to 21 again.

It’s harder than I thought it was going to be. But, now that I’m conscious of it I pay more attention to my words.