kalavinka




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kalavinka's Life List

  1. 1. spend less time screwing around on the web
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    211 people
  2. 2. learn the okinawan dialect
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    2 people
  3. 3. Learn to speak and write Japanese fluently
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    177 people
  4. 4. Learn to speak Spanish
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    2,663 people
  5. 5. learn to play shamisen
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    22 people
  6. 6. Donate blood more often
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  7. 7. lose another 40 pounds
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    6 people
  8. 8. be a better vegan
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    73 people
  9. 9. learn to cook delicious vegan meals
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    4 people
  10. 10. understand macrobiotics intuitively
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  11. 11. develop social skills enough to hold a conversation with anyone
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  12. 12. make everyone laugh as much as possible
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    1 person
  13. 13. make more friends
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    5,483 people
  14. 14. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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  15. 15. live in tokyo for a few years
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  16. 16. Live in San Francisco for a few years
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  17. 17. visit more museums
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    86 people
  18. 18. Read more books
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    11,816 people
  19. 19. Improve my photography
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    642 people
  20. 20. have nicer clothes
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    3 people
  21. 21. increase my capacity for patience and tolerance
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    1 person
  22. 22. learn to SCUBA dive
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    2,718 people
  23. 23. learn to mountain bike
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    22 people
  24. 24. Explore California!
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    14 people
  25. 25. Drive across the USA
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    2,190 people
  26. 26. visit all 50 states
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    8,529 people
  27. 27. explore Japan
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    15 people
  28. 28. Walk the Great Wall of China
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    622 people
  29. 29. see the remains of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World
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    8 people
  30. 30. be on Flickr's interestingness
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  31. 31. Run a mile without stopping
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    338 people
  32. 32. learn to play bass
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    732 people
  33. 33. Minimize existing clutter and excess possessions
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    412 people
  34. 34. Start playing guitar again
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    96 people
  35. 35. convert my web sites to CSS
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    72 people
  36. 36. See the Aurora Borealis and the Aurora Australis
    150 people
  37. 37. play in the snow
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    130 people
  38. 38. Go camping and hiking more often
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Recent entries
spend less time screwing around on the web (read all 3 entries…)
Cutting out wasted time in chunks

A major life change forced me to look over my life and decide what’s important and what is not. I guess you could say by participating in 43things I’m still screwing around, but that’s subjective. I’ve cut off my addiction to free online games and no longer linger on the internet just to be on it. Now I only go on at home when there’s a need to, like looking up directions or the hours of a store. I have much more time now to cook, clean, read, and spend time with people offline. It’s tiring to exert physical energy instead of just your fingers typing/clicking away but so worth it. Maybe in a couple months time I’ll have regressed or maybe improved to the point where I can say I’ve accomplished the goal.



meet my soulmate
I thought I did...

...but after 14 years they dumped me so I guess I was wrong. Or maybe soulmates aren’t forever, it’s just someone who feels like you could spend the rest of your life with. Soulmate doesn’t mean it will last no matter what. You have to work on the relationship just like everything else in life, or else your souls drift apart.



visit all 50 states
slowly but surely

last year i went to new england for the first time and hit several states. (drive throughs count for me) this year i went to both washingtons, dc and the state. perhaps for my next vacation i should drive in a line across some of the states i have not been to. that or spend quality time in the states i only drove through in the past.

visited 29 states (58%)Create your own visited map of The United States or try another DouweOsingaproject



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