i turn heads very easily now…
just cuz i look as gorgeous as i can and show off confidently!
perfect hair, perfect make up and in style outfit combined with a very confident attitude… it sure makes people turn heads to look at me.
no doubt im so popular.
if u wanna turn heads of everyone and make people jealous of you… simply look like you just walked out of a fashion magazine cover and show confidence!
just take care of your looks good enough and dress cool enough to pass an image of being chic and cool,
and walk feeling your own image, that is, walk with confidence, like you know you look good.
heads will turn when you pass. and after that, all u gotta do is just socialize: introduce urself to ppl and ask their name, talk to them, just play it cool and never be too friendly or you will seem creepy. just play it cool.
it took me a long time to loosen up, but now i do!
wow, i used to be shy and unpopular, i was afraid of sounding stupid or saying the wrong thing and stuff…
now i changed! now i’m cool and popular, i don’t give a damn about swearing when i feel like it and talking shit around people, and i am so social and stylish!
SO HAPPY :)
Man, I started to swear and I felt so more free…now I am even more popular at school with my friends…all my friends swear and I was the only one who was too shy to swear, it sucked!
Well, I sure don’t swear around more “prude” people, but I don’t give a fucking shit when I’m around cool, popular people.
just look intimidating. give off lots of confidence and give out mean glances at people around you.
they’ll be afraid of you and it will give you some ‘power’.
i used to be shy and quiet and not comfortable around ppl
then one day i was lying on my bed and i suddenly figured out that the fact that people i didn’t knew were “strangers” was blocking me from making new friends and being the real me, just like a big wall blocks you from seeing the world…
then i thought “what if i broke this wall down, i could see the world and the world could see me…”
after that day i totally changed…
now i am always happy, i meet new people and i’m not afraid of being silly or ditzy in front of them, i laugh easily and i talk a lot…it’s just amazing, now i can honestly say i make friends easily.
now i can talk to strangers freely and after 10 minutes they are people i’m laughing with. it’s really fun!
its great!!
i love it
whenever someone is rude to me
i yell at them and they start being polite with me
ok its bitchy and drama queen-like from me
but im not afraid of anything anymore and im really happy and VERY confident and outgoing now!!!
is easy. try changing your looks for better
it can get more eyes on you and more confidence to you to make friends
The A-list are the most noticed, the most popular.
I am confident that I have a really funny personality, and I love causing drama and reacting to everything and all.
Well, this means I’m an extrovert.
I’m popular because of it.
Really, you guys, being the most popular girl is all about a lot of drama. I like all this drama, but what about you?
Try to be sure if is this exactly what you really want. Believe me, being popular has it downsides too.
It’s good to pay compliments on other ppl, especially if you pay a REAL compliment. If someone feels awkward on paying a compliment on someone, you can tell somebody “you look nice today” using the voice you’d use to say “today’s a nice day”.
1.Talk to new people. Everyone likes people that are social, that’s why shy people don’t have many friends. You can go up to someone and strike a conversation, find out what they’re about and learn about them, also let them learn about you.
2.Be caring to everyone! Show they matter to you, show you care about how they feel, how they are.
3.Smile. Look straight in their eyes and smile, bright up everyone’s day with your good humor, laugh at silly jokes, have positive thoughs and say positive things – they will be so grateful that you have made their day happier.
4.Understand everyone you talk to. No matter how strange or how confusing they sound, accept everyone is different and learn how to like their positive qualities.
5.Be a good listener and DO NOT JUDGE. Whenever other people need a shoulder to lean, be there to help and understand their pain, and of course, help them, don’t tell them how wrong they did something, be there to help and support them, give your advinces, but don’t judge them.
6.Make them feel good about themselves. If you like what that person is wearing or something about them, tell them, let they know you think they’re nice. But your compliment must be honest, real and truly friendly, otherwise they won’t feel you’re honest.
7.Be present in their lives. Get to know their birthday date, what do they like and don’t forget it! Everyone likes it when someone remembers they birthday, even when they remember their names, it shows you care about them and they will like you a lot more.
8. ALWAYS BE SINCERE. Lying is the worst thing a friend can do, so let them know what you feel and, no matter what, always speak what’s on your mind, let they know the truth. Be true to your friends and they will remember you forever.
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best wishes to u all, friends!
being sure of your qualities help a lot! it will make you not to be afraid and show them to the world!
speak ur mind, b ur person and let ppl know wut u feel! express u!
being urself makes life easier and funner!
you gotta have a friendly face – so smile at people
offer to help other people around you on anything, even if you don’t know them
friendly people smile and treat everyone as they’d like to be traeted by their friends
theres this really annoying girl that pretends to b my friend, but she bullies everyone and even is sarcastic and mean to me.
im starting to b cynical and sarcastic with her and i love it when she feels embarrassed when i say somethin
i think soon ill b very assertive as i want to be
i’m popular and a some of the super popular people r popular cuz of their natural charisma and strong presence, plus we r all extroverts!
if you’re enjoying yourself, people will have a good time when they are around you.
so i think the important thing to do is to say “fuck it” and try to have positive thoughs and enjoy the time.
when u go up to a group of ppl and express urself, then just try to enjoy YOU, not make them enjoy you, they cant help it but will like to have u around.
it helps me a lot when i am enthusiastic about having a few laughings and have positive thoughs, and not when i am just trying to please ppl.
this is a small exercise that may help A LOT in ur self confidence!
think of 5 things that you like about ur personality and write it in a piece of paper and u will feel a lot better
then everyday morning take a look at that paper and u will see everything u have of good in urelf, and remind urself of ur qualities along ur day
hope u like it!
extroverts like to express themselves freely and clearly, and let the world notice them and listen to wut they say, thats why they r not afraid to talk to strangers and get to meet ppl.
hope this helps.
charisma is a awesome gift, but its true that everyone has a little of it, but some ppl have it naturally more developted than others.
a genuine smile and being enthusiastic on meeting people make u more extroverted and charismatic. but confidence and being sure of ur qualities and talents and if u intend to make them noticed, then u definetely can make all eyes go on you.
