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kirand04




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  2. 1. stretch
    1 cheer     		112 people
  3. 2. see the pyramids
    		948 people
  4. 3. See Ayers Rock
    		18 people
  5. 4. visit the Taj Mahal
    		159 people
  6. 5. Snorkel in the Great Barrier Reef
    		83 people
  7. 6. get married
    		18,578 people
  8. 7. visit europe
    		1,400 people
  9. 8. Take a salsa class
    		21 people
  10. 9. Reduce my sugar intake
    1 entry . 1 cheer     		15 people
  11. 10. karaoke in Japan
    3 cheers     		34 people
  12. 11. ride in a hot air balloon
    2 cheers     		1,977 people
  13. 12. ride a vespa around the streets of italy
    2 cheers     		5 people
  14. 13. see the northern lights
    		16,889 people
  15. 14. Go parasailing
    1 cheer     		719 people
  16. 15. Have a baby
    		5,720 people
  17. 16. visit all 7 continents
    2 cheers     		1,294 people
  18. 17. eat a pizza in italy
    1 cheer     		114 people
  19. 18. go skinny dipping
    1 cheer     		3,085 people
  20. 19. ballroom dance
    1 cheer     		165 people
  21. 20. Be more assertive
    1 entry     		645 people
Recent entries
be more assertive
workplace issues 2 years ago

Well i really thought I was an assertive person but actually I am not. I seem to be assertive in situations where I know other people such as friends and family but in a work situation i feel very vulnerable and tend to be a doormat especially with my boss who used to treat me very badly. I need to learn to speak up and no what i want.

I am reading a really good book at the moment : Assertiveness and the right to be you by Claire Walmsley. Its already helping me change my attitude which tends to slant to the negative side alot when things get tough. But this book really helps you take control and you feel more confident and happy for it…..

this is a really hard thing to do if you are naturally passive and hate conflict and so I really am working to change this…good luck to others who are too!!

May 28, 2007, 04:20AM PDT | 0 comments


get my hair professionally straightened
nice and straight 2 years ago

i just love it wen i can wash my hair and by the time its dried its just straight again. definatley worth it!

Dec 21, 2006, 02:01AM PST | 1 cheer | 1 comment


lose 2 kilos
on holiday 2 years ago

I found it was really easy to lose the weight while on holiday. it was hot and i was constantly busy doing things. keeping busy really helped me not to eat too much…

Dec 21, 2006, 01:59AM PST | 0 comments


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go snorkeling go to law school detox visit all 50 states learn to make sushi Use the 'clean sweep' checklist to improve my life Jez wants to learn ruby on rails make an album lose ten pounds be a good mother stop procrastinating Volunteer sweet vv wants to overcome anxiety write something worthwhile learn to SCUBA dive Own a world map and mark the places you’ve visited have a penpal live in europe find a job i love Sing like James Hetfield Learn to play the guitar remember people's birthdays go walking every day that I can learn how to speak swedish Read "The Pragmatic Programmer" change my name go to more concerts
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