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kirand04




I'm doing 20 things
  

kirand04's Life List

  2. 1. stretch
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  3. 2. see the pyramids
    		953 people
  4. 3. See Ayers Rock
    		19 people
  5. 4. visit the Taj Mahal
    		160 people
  6. 5. Snorkel in the Great Barrier Reef
    		83 people
  7. 6. get married
    		18,729 people
  8. 7. visit europe
    		1,411 people
  9. 8. Take a salsa class
    		21 people
  10. 9. Reduce my sugar intake
    1 entry . 1 cheer     		16 people
  11. 10. karaoke in Japan
    3 cheers     		34 people
  12. 11. ride in a hot air balloon
    2 cheers     		2,005 people
  13. 12. ride a vespa around the streets of italy
    2 cheers     		5 people
  14. 13. see the northern lights
    		16,994 people
  15. 14. Go parasailing
    1 cheer     		726 people
  16. 15. Have a baby
    		5,752 people
  17. 16. visit all 7 continents
    2 cheers     		1,304 people
  18. 17. eat a pizza in italy
    1 cheer     		112 people
  19. 18. go skinny dipping
    1 cheer     		3,077 people
  20. 19. ballroom dance
    1 cheer     		165 people
  21. 20. Be more assertive
    1 entry     		652 people
Recent entries
be more assertive
workplace issues 2 years ago

Well i really thought I was an assertive person but actually I am not. I seem to be assertive in situations where I know other people such as friends and family but in a work situation i feel very vulnerable and tend to be a doormat especially with my boss who used to treat me very badly. I need to learn to speak up and no what i want.

I am reading a really good book at the moment : Assertiveness and the right to be you by Claire Walmsley. Its already helping me change my attitude which tends to slant to the negative side alot when things get tough. But this book really helps you take control and you feel more confident and happy for it…..

this is a really hard thing to do if you are naturally passive and hate conflict and so I really am working to change this…good luck to others who are too!!

May 28, 2007, 04:20AM PDT | 0 comments


get my hair professionally straightened
nice and straight 3 years ago

i just love it wen i can wash my hair and by the time its dried its just straight again. definatley worth it!

Dec 21, 2006, 02:01AM PST | 1 cheer | 1 comment


lose 2 kilos
on holiday 3 years ago

I found it was really easy to lose the weight while on holiday. it was hot and i was constantly busy doing things. keeping busy really helped me not to eat too much…

Dec 21, 2006, 01:59AM PST | 0 comments


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I want to:

The world wants to...

become a published writer Bblouder wants to not be scared to be loved Visit Japan be proud write a short story. Visit Australia drink more water Lose 15 lbs do volunteer work abroad Hike more often Stop caring what other people think of me sophomoreinbetween wants to keep a clean house simplify my life learn french see the pyramids in Egypt reinvent my career Learn to play the double bass Go to Britain get over a broken heart Travel to all 50 States make people understand that declawing a cat is a painful unnecessary surgery and there are better ways to deal with cat's scratching watch all of the L Word episodes back to back figure out if i'm pregnant...? watch Grey's Anatomy leave notes in library books jumpstyle rock
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