kookielady

We are still living apart but getting on great. Just have this hurdle that I cannot seem to get over. I hope that I do not offend anyone by being so open. I love him very much and believe our relationship is good and I am happy with the way things are, I just do not want to have sex. It does not appeal to me and quite frankly, for me, I think I have better things to do. Is this just me or are there any others like this???
Am I being unrealistic to expect him to accept it? We have many calm and caring conversations about this but I think unless I get over this, it could be a deal breker for him.
Today I have looked into hypnotherapy for this, has anyone tried this? Id rather not be popping pills.

Please help x

I simply cannot believe that I have actually done it! I got an email last week telling me that I had passed my exam and a general feedback sheet, I was very happy. Then a few days later my certificate arrived….. I passed with DISTINCTION! Hello! Moon! Over!

Honestly and truly without wanting to sound even a tad smug, when I think back each and every assignment seemed to take forever and was always at the cost of doing something else…but now I look back and it seems to have gone so quickly. My only regret is that I didnt start it earlier. I had been talking about starting it for years and now I have done it and bar having my beautiful son, it is surely one of my greatest achievements.

Now, I need to start my next course and its my plan to be fully qualified and practice in all my chosen areas within 5 years. Again looking at it written down it reads like an age and as though I will never get there but I have been given the lift I need and instead of keep talking about, I believe that the sooner I get started, the sooner I’ll reach my ultimate work goal.

Do it guys, small chunks, one piece at a time. After a while it all seems to snowball together and the high just rocks!

Best of luck! xxx

Last weeks tasks done (Busy week!)
1. Removed my profile from an online dating site.
2. Stopped flirting with a guy at work.
3. H cooked a meal for me.
4. Arranged to stay the long bank holiday weekend with him.
5. H and I discussed possibly moving house (together) to help start afresh.

This weeks things to do,
1. I would like to buy H a small and thoughtful gift to say thank you for a lovely weekend. Must think hard, suggestions welcome.
2. Buy theatre tickets for a show we would both like to see.
3. Remember to sign off every email / text with a kiss.

Have to say that this has all been hard work and I do worry that I will run out of ideas soon enough. It is a constant ringing in my head and I do not doubt that even if we do get through this that making a marriage work takes thought every single day, big and small ways. Tiring week
So please any ANY ANY suggestions would be helpful.

I now know that I want family life more than I want to argue about how clean the house is. Gosh, how sad was I?

Wishing everyone else tackling this all the very best each and every day.