I’ve played flute since I was 10, and have always loved it. It’s not as difficult as some people think, and it’s always brought me a lot of pleasure. It helps me de-stress, and relax. It’s SO worth the time and effort it takes to learn!
ladyashe's Life List
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1. be a good mom and wife
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2. stop surviving and start thriving
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3. learn coping skills
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4. become ME again
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5. feel like an adult
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6. clean my house more often
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7. learn to love myself
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8. Get organized
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9. stop treating my son as though he were his biological father
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10. Stop cutting
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11. Meet my husband's family
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12. Develop my own interests
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13. Stop punishing my husband for my ex's mistakes
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14. get my music back
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15. kick my mother out of my house
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16. live my life for ME not for someone else
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17. Get away from my abusers
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18. lose 50 lbs
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19. do what makes me happy
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20. get handfasted
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21. be a better pagan
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22. raise good kids
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23. Be a better friend
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24. write in my journal more often
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25. write in my blog more often
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26. be a better wife
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27. BE MORE LOVING
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28. Be a better daughter/sister
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29. BE A BETTER SISTER-IN-LAW
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30. start singing again
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31. be more forgiving
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32. be easier on myself
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33. watch my language
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34. be an intresting woman
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35. STUDY PAGANISM
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How I did it: We waited and used our tax refund to get us each a tattoo, my first, his third. We started researching parlors in our area, looking at their work and talking to others in the area whose ink we admired, and finally chose our parlor. Once we knew where we wanted to go, we went in and talked to them about how much it would cost for the ink we wanted. Once we knew that, we decided we'd have to use our tax refund. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I submitted a number of poems to as many places as I could find that might be willing to publish it. It took a LOT of patience and perseverance, but it finally paid off. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I found other things to occupy my time, read a book, listened to music, and got the kids doing crafts and other things so that they didn't want the TV either. Read how I did it…
