I'm doing 33 things
Hiya
Hope you don’t mind, just wanted to share my thoughts…I think you are doing the right thing for yourself….Good on you, as it’s not an easy thing to do… As some people rather be a couple, to avoid being lonely. But what they don’t reaslie they are more lonely being a couple. When they need to go and see what’s out there to learn and enjoy alone!!! Good on you!!!
I have done this for two years, and in time, my heart and mind was ready. Then without looking and (wanting!!) it had happen, I had met someone. It’s lovely, but it’s not always easy. When your single, you seemed to be more free and not have to think about the other person in your life.
What I have found, that with the right person , at the right time of your life. Your are willing to go though misunderstanding, heated debate etc…Because it’s not easy thinking for two people, never mind for thinking about what you need.
You can make two choices...To be single, and having that wonderful freedom and maybe sometime have the problem of being lonely. Or be a couple, have those wonderful time being in a couple, sharing and have the problems in learning to share other things you don't like!! So for now, you can chooses what's right for you! Because being single and being a couple have good and not so good things about them, so its about what you rather have for now. Its not what about what anyone think, do not matter what age you are ( I am 35 years old, still not married) , or what your doing in your life. Always follow your own heart, not the feeling of what I should do!!
