after my third devastating break up in less than a year a friend told me that i define how good my relationship is by how happy the guy is, even if it means i’m not happy. i think she may have a point, and i want to find a way to be happy on my own and take time to learn what i need so that when i start dating again i know what i don’t want to compromise on.
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1. be happy on my own
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2. stop feeling guilty
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How I did it
How I did it: I gave myself lots of time to heel and stepped back from dating. I think at first I wanted someone to "fix me" but it didn't take long to realize that I wasn't broken I just needed some time to heal. It's ok to be a little selfish, to not want to jump back into the dating world or try to be friends with your ex. Read how I did it…
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need to get over it
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My ex lied to me for several months and really messed with my head. I thought I was over him but now I’m seeing this new guy who is so great and so sweet but I can’t help but be terrified that he’s just going to start behaving like my ex one day. I need to get over my ex so that I can trust and enjoy being with other guys without letting my baggage get in the way of something that could be good.
