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  1. 1. Follow through with my goals (short term)
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    1 person
  2. 2. Complete a full body detox
    5 people
  3. 3. control my anxiety
    159 people
  4. 4. have gorgeous, flawless skin
    52 people
  5. 5. drink 8 glasses of water a day
    1,266 people
  6. 6. put things away when I'm finished with them
    16 people
  7. 7. be proud of myself
    505 people
  8. 8. grieve the daily losses but embrace the change
    14 people
  9. 9. To live instead of exist
    10,874 people
  10. 10. get fit
    2,781 people
  11. 11. be more disciplined
    355 people
  12. 12. Find my cure
    1 person
  13. 13. be less self-conscious
    358 people
  14. 14. get over my fear of people
    75 people
  15. 15. I want a friend
    4 people
  16. 16. Live Without Fear
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    604 people
  17. 17. stop being jealous and insecure
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    21 people
  18. 18. meditate
    2,765 people
  19. 19. play guitar more often
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    93 people
  20. 20. live simply
    3,253 people
  21. 21. find a good job
    470 people
  22. 22. See more sunsets/sunrises
    54 people
  23. 23. sleep less
    618 people
  24. 24. laugh more
    1,764 people
  25. 25. let go of my regrets
    22 people
  26. 26. send in a postcard to PostSecret
    124 people
  27. 27. learn caligraphy
    182 people
  28. 28. be more patient
    2,906 people
  29. 29. be a better person
    3,577 people
  30. 30. get out of debt
    11,034 people
  31. 31. make a difference
    6,793 people
  32. 32. Read more books
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    11,020 people
  33. 33. organize my digital photos
    97 people
  34. 34. Study Photography
    312 people
  35. 35. move out of my parents' house
    1,367 people
  36. 36. Have a totally different life by this time next year
    980 people
  37. 37. plant a tree
    1,062 people
  38. 38. marry my soulmate
    607 people
  39. 39. have a house with hidden rooms and trap doors, and some kind of secret tunnel
    486 people
  40. 40. learn swing dancing
    79 people
  41. 41. Go on retreat to a Zen monastery
    42 people
  42. 42. make poverty history
    219 people
  43. 43. travel the world
    18,555 people
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Follow through with my goals (short term)
Achievement 22 months ago

I need to begin to follow through with some of my goals, or recognize that I have accomplished some of them (in which I should acknowledge,reward myself and be proud). I will remove this goal in one month if I begin to reach some of my other attainable / realistic goals. Baby steps to bigger steps.
It is only in seeing what you have done that will enable you to progress.



finish school
Untitled 22 months ago

Totally worth doing! Persistance is the key. Just keep plucking away at it every day and remember your ultimate goal; a great career and a satisfying life. Even if you are re-entering the the system, which can seem overwhelming, you will settle in after awhile. Things always work out when you try. Just remember that.



Quit Smoking
Untitled 2 years ago

I have quit smoking many times over the last 15 years. I LOVE to smoke. I have never once wanted to quit! But I have been smoke-free for a year now. I have used some of the same techniques each time and have found these methods to work best.

Quit Cold Turkey.
This is extremely hard, but it works. You have to be ready to quit though, a want to quit. Set a date in the near distance, and up to that date psych yourself up for it. Convince yourself of this want by thinking it constantly. Realize why you want to. Write a list of reasons. Think of these things each time you inhale your plume of smoke. Tell yourself how bad it tastes (even if you don’t think that).

Tell people.
If your intentions are brought to the attention of others, they will support you (I would hope), but not only that, you will have something to prove. The fear of embarrassment, letting people – and yourself – down can be a great motivational tool.

Partners
Motivation from others is an amazing feeling, but having someone doing this with you will aid you on quest.

After Drinking
I have always found this to work. It is a nice little trick. I would party and drink alcohol on a Saturday night. I would chain smoke and have a whole pack in just that evening. I realize that this is both unconventional and unhealthy, but long-term benefits outweigh the immediate. I am not advising, just merely explaining my method and rational. By the next morning, you will feel harsh. The drunker you got the night before, the more you feel ill the next. Feeling this sick, you don’t want to smoke. Later in the afternoon, once you feel better and crave that cigarette, just say “no”.
Think about and focus on how gross it was to smoke all night. Think of how many hours it has been since you last one. When you start contemplating, you will realize that it has likely been 10 hours. Think to yourself that you could put it off for another. And do that. Next time you crave, think about this again. Delay. Reaffirm that you do not want it.

Keep yourself busy
I am not gonna say start exercising (though it may be a good idea), but I am gonna say to find projects to do. Keep your hands moving (not eating though) and even chew gum.

Self-affirmation
Continually tell yourself that you can, you will or you are quitting right now. Congratulate yourself. Give yourself rewards. Remind yourself of the reasons why you are quitting. Deep psychological conditioning will be needed.

Change you routine around.
If you always smoke at 1:00pm because that is when your favorite show is on, don’t watch the show. Tape it. Watch it another time. Go to the same spot everyday at work? Move away from that space. Change dinner time, wake-up time… whatever you think that will help.

Cave?
Doesn’t matter. No big deal. Don’t kick yourself over it or call yourself names. Say it out loud, “It was one. I can restart this as soon as I am done this one smoke.”. No more smoking! If you can’t do it at all, give it a month. Do it.

Easy right? Never.




 

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