lifedreamcatcher

Well, 10months later and we are back together. I had even forgotten I wrote this, wow I was so upset back then.
I just had to give him time and space, and once he got over anxiety and realised he still wanted me in his life we worked things out and things couldnt be better.
Advice to others: it takes time, if it’s meant to be then youll work it out, but be prepared to give space.

I just wanted to say that your entries have been incredibly inspirational for me, and I can only hope that I explore and learn as much as you did on your journey. It gives me hope that perhaps I will reunite with my love, and I hope that everything is going well for you. I know it will take time, but he is worth every secind and I will never give up.

over a month later, and we had a big talk yesterday. he told me that he isnt in love with me anymore, and that the spark is just gone between us. i think this was the real reason for the breakup, not that he ‘needed space.’ he should have told me sooner.

i can see how he thinks the spark is gone, things got a little stale at the end, we got into a routine. BUT im still madly in love with him, and not giving up. i think ill be living the single life for a long time, but i know that there still is a spark, ive just got to try and show him.

i think im going to leave talking anything about ‘us’ with him for a couple of months….we’re both going home to our families for christmas so maybe the space will be good (I see him every single day). ill continue to be his best friend (as i have been doing for the past couple weeks- its hard, but still nice, as i love him as a friend as well as being ‘in love’ with him- we were friends for 6months before we got together). Then maybe see how things go after christmas and cross my fingers that he doesnt find some new hottie in the meantime!

what do people think, best thing to do? or is there aything else that would be better? im worried that being his friend will make him see me much too plutonically, like he does his other female friends. im worried about the risk but dont think i have any choice.