Perhaps, I care too much. Should I take the route of apathy?
lintacious's Life List
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1. be debt free by the time i'm 30
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2. Don't worry about it until it happens
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3. don't let others control my life
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4. do the stuff i enjoy. don't do the stuff i don't.
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5. discover what i care about and only get upset when those values are being compromised, instead of flipping out over every little thing
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6. calm the fuck down
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7. identify my fears about having a long term relationship or getting married
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8. live like i got nothing to lose
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9. figure out who I am
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10. punch anxiety in the face
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11. stop the negative patterns that recur in my family
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12. run a 5K in under 30 minutes
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13. sell baked goods
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14. build a CSS Zen Garden style sheet
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15. be known
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16. win at the internet
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17. go to SXSW
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18. witness the end of IE
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19. have sex with google
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20. Learn to drive a stick shift
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21. have a Christmas tree
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22. Climb Mt. Kilimanjaro
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23. see the seven wonders of the world
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24. rid myself of envy
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25. enjoy my life
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26. be the right person instead of trying to find the right person
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27. Be a naked sushi model
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28. spin a world globe and live in whatever place my finger lands on for 1 year
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29. Be on The Amazing Race
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30. have an article greenlighted on fark
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31. climb mt. fuji
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32. Go to Easter Island
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33. live on Guam for a year
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34. live in seattle
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35. swim in jellyfish lake
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36. visit the Salar de Uyuni
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How I did it: This is tricky. I spent four years of my life working my butt off during college to prove to my family that I could make it. Well, I survived and was/am successful.However, once I graduated, two things happened:1) No one really cared. I told myself, "i have to prove them wrong" but my family didn't really care if i succeeded or failed. No one was placing bets. It didn't affect them. So while I was very pleased with myself, the… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I made sacrifices. I hadn't realized that when saying "good things" that this is extremely subjective. There were things that were supposed to be good, so I clung on to them and waited for the good; for fear that losing it would be a bad decision. Waiting for "the good" is, well, never a good thing. Read how I did it…
Considering this is 3.5 years away for me, I must add the clause that I know I will not be able to pay off my student loan. However, with the tax deductible interest and low interest rate, it is not a priority. Other debt, such as my car loan, is much more important for me to pay off and I definitely want that gone by the time I’m 30.
