It might be easier to fall in love if I actually met any men. Seriously, I spend the majority of my day at work, where there are maybe 3 single, straight guys in my age range, none of whom I am interested in, and none of whom are interested in me. I hang out with my friends, most of whom are women, and we never really go anywhere. Even the things I do that are new and interesting tend to attract women and not men. The class I am taking has 15 women and one man in it.
So I think maybe the goal shouldn’t be to fall in love, the goal should be to find a way to put myself in places where falling in love is a possibility.
