I just do want to marry the love of my life. The one who balances me, who kindly pushes back on my BS, and you is kind, vulnerable, strong, and gorgeous…and loves me for who I am..bad day or good day…
luvdlux's Life List
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1. stop picking my skin
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2. drop 15lbs
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3. get out of debt
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4. travel to india
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5. Travel to China with my son
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6. sing jazz in a jazz club
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7. Create a positive family experience
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8. make reality my sculpture
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9. drop the baggage
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10. meditate every day for 10 minutes
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11. read more to my kids
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12. backpack through europe with family
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13. raise 2 happy and fulfilled men
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14. go back to school
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15. learn to manage clean laundry
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16. drink 6 glasses of water a day
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17. learn to make vegan chocolate truffles
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18. keep in touch with my friends, especially holidays
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19. publish a book
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20. get my parent and childhood fair off the ground
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21. reach 40 yrs old as a hot mama my sons' friends think is hot
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22. ignore catalogs and mail for future perusing
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23. read the books i have, toss the ones i don't by the end of 2008
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24. get to places on time 90% of the time
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25. have a glass-domed courtyard home
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26. have a mediterranean fruit, flower, and succulent garden
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27. travel by swapping homes with fellow craiglisters around the globe
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28. overcome fibromyalgia
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29. beat my chronic fatigue
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30. stop procrastinating
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31. Be in a healthy relationship
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32. Track and eliminate "tolerations" regularly
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33. set up FLYlady routines
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35. Learn to trust again, and trust wisely
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36. Accept The Idea He Doesn't Want to Marry Me
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37. create the soundtrack to my life
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38. find at least one thing each day that makes me happy and record it everyday for a year
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39. Marry the love of my life.
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How I did it: I was closed to the idea of dating. I was closed to the idea of looking for someone else. I didn't look for anyone, but I also went out regularly with friends and had activities with both sexes.Slowly a friend of many years and I kissed out of the blue and we realized, after really trying to stop the relationship, that it was inevitable. We had been falling in love as friends and getting to know each other really well for the past co… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I took a day to search all my stuff and receipts. I created an account on turbotax.com. I started and realized what I need to find additionally. I did that. I cam back to it and then then I started to do it and I did it through the night until I ws done with coffee. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I realized I couldn't take courses..I don't have time, so for my birthday I schedule a private lesson (3 hours) and it was wonderful. I can go back any day, but at least I've experienced it and with a one on one, I got a lot out of it. Read how I did it…
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I love this idea and I think it is something i need to restart with my kids…a daily journal of the great things in life. Because we’ve been through challenges over the last 5 years, and they still do with a certain donor, they sometimes focus too much on the bad. I will start this as well because some days, with my new disability and what life throws at me, I need that refocusing and readjustment at the end of the day to make sure I realize what made me happy and what was good about the day….
So for halloween I ate tons of chocolate, cookies,and stuff with milk products and a coke..all bad for my skin. I started to fast monday off of all bad stuff I broke the rules on during halloween but I justified doing one good clean over of black heads and pimples. My esthetician used to do that and it was fine after a day.Thing is I can’t stop. I haven’t done any major damage..but i’ve broke my good disciple.
I revisted this website which makes you understand how fragile your skin is and our problem. Hope it helps someone. It helped me stop for a while last year. http://www.stoppickingonme.com/index.php

