luvdlux

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  1. 1. stop picking my skin
    18 entries . 6 cheers
    754 people
  2. 2. get out of debt
    3 entries . 6 cheers
    12,094 people
  3. 3. travel to india
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    652 people
  4. 4. Travel to China with my son
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    1 person
  5. 5. sing jazz in a jazz club
    3 entries . 5 cheers
    1 person
  6. 6. Create a positive family experience
    3 entries . 5 cheers
    1 person
  7. 7. make reality my sculpture
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    1 person
  8. 8. drop the baggage
    2 entries . 1 cheer
    1 person
  9. 9. read more to my kids
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    16 people
  10. 10. backpack through europe with family
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    1 person
  11. 11. raise 2 happy and fulfilled men
    1 entry
    1 person
  12. 12. go back to school
    4 entries . 3 cheers
    2,677 people
  13. 13. learn to manage clean laundry
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    1 person
  14. 14. drink 6 glasses of water a day
    3 cheers
    16 people
  15. 15. learn to make vegan chocolate truffles
    1 cheer
    1 person
  16. 16. keep in touch with my friends, especially holidays
    1 entry
    1 person
  17. 17. publish a book
    3 entries . 3 cheers
    2,521 people
  18. 18. get my parent and childhood fair off the ground
    1 person
  19. 19. reach 40 yrs old as a hot mama my sons' friends think is hot
    1 person
  20. 20. read the books i have, toss the ones i don't by the end of 2008
    1 cheer
    1 person
  21. 21. get to places on time 90% of the time
    1 cheer
    1 person
  22. 22. have a glass-domed courtyard home
    1 person
  23. 23. have a mediterranean fruit, flower, and succulent garden
    1 person
  24. 24. travel by swapping homes with fellow craiglisters around the globe
    1 cheer
    1 person
  25. 25. overcome fibromyalgia
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    14 people
  26. 26. beat my chronic fatigue
    2 entries . 2 cheers
    37 people
  27. 27. stop procrastinating
    3 entries
    30,012 people
  28. 28. Be in a healthy relationship
    3 entries . 2 cheers
    100 people
  29. 29. Track and eliminate "tolerations" regularly
    3 people
  30. 30. set up FLYlady routines
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    331 people
  31. 31. Change the IRS tax system to allow and encourage businesses to provide greater good through their business and simultaneously generate an equitiable and prosperous livlihood for its owner and employess through a social enterprise tax status
    1 person
  32. 32. Create a Zen Bedroom (a place of refuge and sanctuary) for myself .
    1 entry
    0 people
  33. 33. meditate daily
    2 entries
    4,554 people
  34. 34. lose 30 lbs
    2 entries
    874 people
  35. 35. Marry the love of my life.
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    974 people
  36. 36. find at least one thing each day that makes me happy and record it everyday for a year
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    2,364 people
  37. 37. create the soundtrack to my life
    1 entry . 1 cheer
    1,910 people
  38. 38. Accept The Idea He Doesn't Want to Marry Me
    2 entries
    5 people
  39. 39. Learn to trust again, and trust wisely
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    195 people
  40. 40. use the Pomodoro technique regulary
    1 entry
    4 people

How I did it
How to ignore catalogs and mail for future perusing
It took me
6 months
It made me
cleaner, organized


How to fall in love again
It took me
1 year
It made me
Feel At Home


How to finish my taxes
It took me
3 days
It made me
Relieved and Happy


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stop picking my skin (read all 18 entries…)
Interesting research-we pick because of our emotions

Why Self-Harm Feels Good in the Brain
By RICK NAUERT PHD Senior News Editor
Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on August 31, 2010
Psych Central Journal Articles

As strange as it may sound, some individuals hurt themselves to obtain relief from emotional stress. Actions such as cutting or burning oneself are behaviors displayed by people who compulsively hurt themselves.

This behavior is sometimes evident among individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD). BPD is a condition that often leads to intense emotions among individuals who have difficulty regulating their emotions.

Accordingly, this group of people displays high prevalence rates of self-injurious behavior, which may help them to reduce negative emotional states.

Researchers have studied the effects of emotional stimuli and a thermal stimulus in people either with or without borderline personality disorder.

They conducted a brain imaging study using picture stimuli to induce negative, positive, or neutral affect and thermal stimuli to induce heat pain or warmth perception. The painful heat stimuli were administered at an individually-set temperature threshold for each subject.

In patients with borderline personality disorder, they found evidence of heightened activation of limbic circuitry in response to pictures evocative of positive and negative emotions, consistent with their reported emotion regulation problems.

Amygdala activation also correlated with self-reported deficits in emotion regulation. However, the thermal stimuli inhibited the activation of the amygdala in these patients and also in healthy controls, presumably suppressing emotional reactivity.

Dr. John Krystal, editor of Biological Psychiatry, commented, “These data are consistent with the hypothesis that physically painful stimuli provide some relief from emotional distress for some patients with borderline personality disorder because they paradoxically inhibit brain regions involved in emotion. This process may help them to compensate for deficient emotional regulation mechanisms.”

The authors note that these results are in line with previous findings on emotional hyperactivity in borderline personality disorder and suggest that these individuals process pain stimuli differently depending on their arousal status.



stop picking my skin (read all 18 entries…)
OH MAN! I messed up again! Tomatoes, Time of Month, and Finances

I had been doing SO well! Over a month!!! So, I am broke, it is that time of the month, and the tomatoes I’ve been eating all created a bumpy face, a stressful time, and a lack of control.
Tomatoes mess up my face. My finances stress the hell out of me. Then for some reason I’ve noticed right around my period I have less control. I must say I am not happy with myself. I feel like correcting the problem by continuing to mess with my face with cleaners and creams etc…but I need to go back to my regular routine and wait until it heals and stop messing with it…sigh….



use the Pomodoro technique regulary
This works, now i need discipline to use it

I just started this up again…I have to use the timer though..even between breaks…I hope this helps my studies this semester….



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