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I ALMOST fall for the vicious cycle.
You know the one…
Girl likes guy and viceversa, you talk to him,(maybe) you’ve known him from long ago (or maybe not long enough at all), you know there are funky stuff about him, you feel lonely, and against your basic instincts you follow his romance game, he can’t meet your needs (but you already knew that, you just went ahead), you get hurt, things end up messy, now you don’t have the friend NOR the beau. Rinse, repeat again.
Of course, there are variations, where you’ve just known the person and fall “madly” (correct, is complete madness!) in love, and the rest is history.
I think it’s time for me to analize VERY well if the prospect in theory has any real long term potential (and I don’t mean marriage, I just mean, something meaningful and everlasting, not something that will burn fast like alcohol).
Loneliness can sometimes be a bad advisor… Not because being alone is necessarily bad, but because it makes you see other people in better light than they really are, therefore, vulnerable to falling victim of your own “desires”.
Whatever, I’m just saying, I’m stepping off this train, this is one of those things that could turn awefully painful.\
I like the guy, he’s a nice person and good friend material, but for all else and for practical purposes I don’t think boyfriend material is the word I could use on him. I think I must leave it clear. FRIENDSHIP.
