mgrechniw

I am trying to control my childrens behavior and when they don’t listen I get upset. I am also always telling them to hurry even when we don’t need to hurry, just to get them to do something. When I get upset I stay upset or withhold affection so they know I am upset and to make them listen. I need to relax and be okay with things the way they are. No one is perfect and I should love my children even when they don’t listen and do what I ask them to do. I need to be more affectionate and compassionate and less controlling and angry.