mholik




I'm doing 39 things
 

mholik's Life List

  1. 1. learn to knit
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    3,511 people
  2. 2. learn Javascript
    362 people
  3. 3. design a beautiful website
    4 entries . 3 cheers
    82 people
  4. 4. take more photos
    5 entries . 4 cheers
    3,479 people
  5. 5. learn action script
    9 people
  6. 6. improve my spanish
    4 entries
    1,043 people
  7. 7. draw more
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    2,160 people
  8. 8. get a passport
    6 entries . 7 cheers
    1,755 people
  9. 9. learn to salsa dance
    2 entries . 3 cheers
    578 people
  10. 10. make something inspired by Joseph Cornell
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    1 person
  11. 11. Stop comparing myself to other people
    5 entries . 3 cheers
    696 people
  12. 12. make all my Christmas gifts this year
    1 entry
    4 people
  13. 13. be a travel writer
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    52 people
  14. 14. focus on what brings me joy
    1 person
  15. 15. participate in guerilla art
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    3 people
  16. 16. decorate my house
    3 entries
    401 people
  17. 17. trust my intuition
    133 people
  18. 18. surround myself with sensual pleasure
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    1 person
  19. 19. screenprint more
    1 entry
    5 people
  20. 20. be fearless
    4 entries
    526 people
  21. 21. Be more spontaneous and creative
    3 entries . 1 cheer
    357 people
  22. 22. make at least $200 on etsy during the coming year
    1 person
  23. 23. Visit Ft. Stanton
    1 person
  24. 24. heal from abuse
    1 entry . 3 cheers
    45 people
  25. 25. sell my car
    332 people
  26. 26. toast
    2 people
  27. 27. Complete "The Artist's Way"
    389 people
  28. 28. Change my relationship with money
    1 entry
    4 people
  29. 29. travel overseas in 2010
    2 people
  30. 30. play the flute again
    1 entry
    70 people
  31. 31. learn to crochet
    1,005 people
  32. 32. learn php and mysql
    116 people
  33. 33. Go scuba diving
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    1,592 people
  34. 34. go canyoneering
    10 people
  35. 35. go vertical caving
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    2 people
  36. 36. see the northern lights
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    16,927 people
  37. 37. build a nightstand
    2 people
  38. 38. stay in an ice hotel
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    97 people
  39. 39. camp at chaco canyon
    1 person

How I did it
How to make something out of prickly pears
It took me
5 days
It made me
yum!


How to have a dog
It took me
4 days
It made me
joyful!


How to hike to Lake Katherine
It took me
2 days
It made me
fulfilled


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Recent entries
improve my spanish (read all 4 entries…)
This is going great. 1 month ago

I know 2 people who speak fluently, my bf knows 2 more… we can all get together and even if I just listen while everyone else talks, it REALLY really helps. So far I’ve hung out with each group once, I’d like to do more because it’s social, it’s fun, and it improves my Spanish! Hooray!



Change my relationship with money
Thoughts on money 1 month ago

Beginning thoughts:

1. I worry about money. Even though I’m more financially comfortable than I’ve ever been, I worry. I am not very responsible with my money so there are stretches where I have none. Those are the times when I am worried about money. I want a better relationship with money so I don’t have to stress about it.

2. I am getting better at making money, but I heard somewhere that when you are ready to welcome more wealth into your life, you have to be ready to deal with that money. To take the time to manage it, to be responsible, to tend it… etc. Right now I’m not sure I’ve made that leap. I’d like to really, truly know I can handle more abundant wealth in my life. Even if I make more money, until I learn to really deal well with it (have a good relationship to it) I will still end up stressed out because I’m not using it well.

3. Is there a part of me that is resistant to increasing my wealth? No, seriously. For one thing, I’ve always been poor. Could I be so used to things being this way I’m afraid of change? After all, get too financially comfortable and it’s that much easier for the rug to be pulled out from under you should a disaster happen. Also, growing up poor, I’ve never REALLY seen anything wrong with it… it made me grateful for what I have, made me less wasteful, shaped me into a less materialistic person, taught me the value of things beyond money. Am I afraid of turning into the kind of person who over values things, money, profit… instead of life experiences, people, and integrity? Thirdly, part of me could be resistant to having more money because I don’t want to be selfish. I already have so much more than other people in the world. I mean, there are people who are wretchedly, desperately poor. What the hell have I done for them? What have I done to deserve any of the prosperity and fortune of being born in a wealthy nation, where even as a “poor person” I have shoes on my feet (and several in my closet) and enough food to have a flabby belly. I guess I don’t feel like I deserve it, even though I really do work hard and I’m good at what I do. So there’s some guilt there, guilt I’m not sure can be fully alleviated by charitable giving. But charity would help I think…

4. I NEVER imagined myself making much money. I decided to pursue an career in art, and went into it because I love it, with the preconceived notion this was not going to be very (or at all!) profitable. Now all of a sudden it would seem that yes, there is a way to make money and I think I might be a little surprised or caught off guard. Not what most people would consider “lots” of money, but more than I thought. Sometimes I worry that you get trapped by money. The more you have, the more you want. The scarier and scarier it becomes to do without. The more you depend on it and feel you “have to” keep your job in order to maintain your lifestyle. The more you come to believe you need things that you really don’t. I don’t want my job to be something I “have to” do… that would be killing something I love. Am I afraid that more money will lead to this kind of thinking and leave me less free?

These are just beginning thoughts, now that I’ve acknowledged these things I hope I can deal with them.

I AM ready for more wealth, if that’s what comes my way. I DO want to stress less about money and I DO believe I can make a change for the better. Here are a few things, off the bat, that I think I can do to improve my relationship with money:

-pay down debt and stop accumulating more of it!
-exercise more self-control in the following spending areas: dining out, retail (clothes especially)
-stick to my budget better. Ask my partner to take part in setting our budget priorities
-practice gratitude instead of envy
-give more money to charity, to keep in touch with the fact that money is less important than compassion or relationships
-remember that I already have more than I need
-realize that I DO deserve to be successful and that I should be rewarded for my hard work and skills.
-affirm to myself that no matter how much money I have, I will not become an asshole. I will not lose sight of who I am. I will not allow it to be the ruling force in my life and my decisions.

Well, this is a start.



Practice the necessary self-care to remain healthy
So far, better than usual 1 month ago

Deadline is fast approaching and I haven’t completely neglected exercise or proper eating. I still drink too much coffee and beer, eat too much sweets and get too tense. And I have a week to go; we’ll see how I do with this as the week progresses.



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