michlo

If you dont work because you like to then you arent working, you are existing.
I love my job, i enjoy going to work, my colleagues are excellent people, the job is serious but can be fun,
Wish the pay was better but u cant have everything

I was 40 in April, my ex wife to be was 40 in August, we had an ok relationship, until the morning she walked in and announced she wanted a divorce.
Turns out she’s been sleeping around for a while, but she wont admit to it.
She has taken great pleasure in blaming me and i really no longer care just to get divorced and away from her.
But to be honest now after much reflection and soul searching, including a huge moment of suicidal depression i found that my friends care for me and have been hugely supportive.
Life gets better, i know it does, i’m not incredibly good looking, but i get by and have found a wonderful woman to share my life with, quite frankly i didnt believe i would ever have a relationship again and would neer trust a women, but my lovely Lizzy has chnged that, and i couldnt be happier.
Some good advice is posted on here , but remember if you can do it friendly and amicably it can be done quickly without fuss, divorce isnt fun but it neednt be too life changing..