Milky Marla

will attempt less but with more focus.



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Milky Marla's Life List

  1. 1. stand up for myself
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    906 people
  2. 2. do the things I dread
    1 entry . 6 cheers
    3 people
  3. 3. get organised
    4 entries . 1 cheer
    241 people
  4. 4. have weekly goals
    6 entries . 6 cheers
    11 people
  5. 5. establish daily routines that work for me
    31 entries . 6 cheers
    1 person
  6. 6. have a weekly tada list
    1 entry . 2 cheers
    1 person
  7. 7. daily: plan something fun after work that I can look forward to as a motivation to work fast, concentrated & efficiently during the day
    4 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  8. 8. file my personal files, papers, and receipts neatly away (www.betterme.org/cleansweep.html)
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    1 person
  9. 9. find ways to look after myself & protect myself better so the need for my depression to protect me becomes obsolete
    1 person
  10. 10. find ways to have less anxiety
    1 person
  11. 11. adapt a more humourus mindset
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    2 people
  12. 12. rock steady
    3 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  13. 13. train my brain on www.lumosity.com
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    1 person
  14. 14. revise my goals and make them: specific, measurable, realistic and time bound
    2 entries . 5 cheers
    2 people
  15. 15. get on top of my e-mails
    2 entries
    1 person
  16. 16. make it a habit to eat 3 healthy and delicious homemade meals daily (plan them in the afternoon/early evening)
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    1 person
  17. 17. have hands like a lady: spend twice a week 30min looking after my hands & nails for 30 consecutive days
    3 entries . 2 cheers
    1 person
  18. 18. be myself
    11 entries . 13 cheers
    1,736 people
  19. 19. improve my social skills
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    162 people
  20. 20. declutter
    1 entry . 4 cheers
    763 people
  21. 21. do the www.flylady.net nine month program and give birth to a new home in July 2010
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    0 people
  22. 22. do the www.betterme.org/cleansweep.html and give birth to a new me in July 2010 (after nine months)
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    0 people
  23. 23. learn about Controlling & strengthen my company
    1 person
  24. 24. be happy
    9 entries . 3 cheers
    21,816 people
  25. 25. exercise regularly
    3 entries . 3 cheers
    10,500 people
  26. 26. be a better friend
    3 entries . 3 cheers
    5,979 people
  27. 27. be healthy
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    1,997 people
  28. 28. create my own record label
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    4 people
  29. 29. practise concentrated relaxation daily
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    1 person
  30. 30. practise on the decks daily
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    1 person
  31. 31. focus on how green MY grass is
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    1 person
  32. 32. be punctual
    3 entries
    179 people
  33. 33. learn how to use Logic Pro 8
    1 person
  34. 34. get out of debt
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    10,999 people
  35. 35. learn to cook
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    8,168 people
  36. 36. make new friends
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    12,744 people
  37. 37. keep in touch with old friends
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    1,559 people
  38. 38. make a mix-CD & get it released on a label
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    1 person
  39. 39. make an album & get it released on a label
    1 person
  40. 40. be less strict and less perfectionistic
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    1 person
  41. 41. trust my instincts
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    120 people
  42. 42. be more patient
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    2,904 people
  43. 43. obtain more balance in my life and work purposefully and not obsessively
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    7 people

How I did it
How to take regular breaks throughout the day
It took me
3 months
It made me
procastinate less


How to buy an iphone
It took me
3 months
It made me
chipper


Recent entries
establish daily routines that work for me (read all 31 entries…)
Wednesday, November 11th 6 hours ago

Week #46

My Morning Routine

  1. Get up w/ alarm FLYing
  2. Make bed
  3. Stretch
  4. Do 120 sit-ups (30C, 20L, 20R, 30U, 20P)
  5. Make/drink hot water w/ lemon
  6. Make/drink tea
  7. Refill water bottle(s)
  8. Empty dishwasher
  9. Trim flowers
  10. Write note in journal (morning note)
  11. Read positive affirmation(s)
  12. Shower & moisturise
  13. Swish & swipe bathroom (10min)
  14. Push back cuticles
  15. Get dressed
  16. Apply make-up
  17. Fix hair
  18. Turn all phones on
  19. Check/Update calendar
  20. Check/Update my lists (ToDo’s, TaDa’s etc.)
  21. Check my 43Things
  22. Get breakfast (homemade & healthy)
  23. Clean up after breakfast
  24. Put out my Hot-Spots (2min)
  25. Brush teeth
  26. Paint nails
  27. Check e-mail (cherry-pick)
  28. Make 1+ new move (acquisition, promotion)
  29. Check all bank accounts
  30. Grab lunch
  31. Grab all keys I need today
  32. Look at daily reminders

My Before Lunch Routine

  1. Any letters to open?
  2. Do one thing I dread
  3. Drink 0,5L of water/tea
  4. Work concentrated/effective for 2h
  5. Eat lunch

My Before Dinner Routine

  1. Work concentrated/effective for 4h
  2. Drink 0,5L of water/tea
  3. Plan next 3 meals (dinner tonite, breakfast & lunch tomorrow)
  4. Update shopping list
  5. Buy groceries
  6. Load of laundry (10min)
  7. Declutter (10min)
  8. Do weekday chores
  9. Read Flylady.net reminders
  10. Do Kelly’s Zone Mission
  11. Get dinner & pack tomorrow’s lunch (homemade & healthy)

After Dinner Routine

  1. Clean up after dinner
  2. Keep sink shining
  3. Charge phones?
  4. Check calendar
  5. Back-up MacBook
  6. Put out Hot-Spots
  7. Hang up laundry?
  8. Clean MacBook, phones, laptop bag, hand bag?
  9. Declutter (10min)
  10. Write note in journal (evening note)

Before Bedtime Routine

  1. Drink 0,5L of water/tea
  2. Drink Actimel
  3. Remove make-up
  4. Wash face & moisturise
  5. Lay out clothes for tomorrow
  6. Brush teeth & floss
  7. Hands & nail care (10min)
  8. Record 3 good things & why they happened
  9. Lights out 11pm!

My Weekly Routine:
  • Monday:
    Dust
    – Change bed sheets
  • Tuesday:
  • Wednesday:
    – Visit P.O. Box
  • Thursday:
  • Friday:


establish daily routines that work for me (read all 31 entries…)
Monday, November 9th 2 days ago

Week #46

My Morning Routine

  1. Get up w/ alarm FLYing9am
  2. Make bed
  3. Stretch
  4. Do 120 sit-ups (30C, 20L, 20R, 30U, 20P)
  5. Make/drink hot water w/ lemon
  6. Make/drink tea
  7. Refill water bottle(s)
  8. Empty dishwasher
  9. Trim flowers
  10. Shower & moisturise
  11. Swish & swipe bathroom (10min)
  12. Push back cuticles
  13. Get dressed
  14. Apply make-up
  15. Fix hair
  16. Turn all phones on
  17. Check/Update calendar
  18. Check/Update my lists (ToDo’s, TaDa’s etc.)
  19. Check my 43Things
  20. Get breakfast (homemade & healthy)
  21. Read positive affirmation(s)
  22. Write note in journal (morning note)
  23. Clean up after breakfast
  24. Put out my Hot-Spots (2min)
  25. Brush teeth
  26. Paint nails
  27. Check e-mail (cherry-pick)
  28. Make 1+ new move (acquisition, promotion)
  29. Check all bank accounts
  30. Grab lunch
  31. Grab all keys I need today
  32. Look at daily reminders

My Before Lunch Routine

  1. Any letters to open?
  2. Do one thing I dread
  3. Drink 0,5L of water/tea
  4. Work concentrated/effective for 2h
  5. Eat lunch

My Before Dinner Routine

  1. Work concentrated/effective for 4h
  2. Drink 0,5L of water/tea
  3. Plan next 3 meals (dinner tonite, breakfast & lunch tomorrow)
  4. Update shopping list
  5. Buy groceries
  6. Load of laundry (10min)
  7. Declutter (10min)
  8. Do weekday chores
  9. Read Flylady.net reminders
  10. Do Kelly’s Zone Mission
  11. Get dinner & pack tomorrow’s lunch (homemade & healthy)

After Dinner Routine

  1. Clean up after dinner
  2. Keep sink shining
  3. Charge phones?
  4. Check calendar
  5. Back-up MacBook
  6. Put out Hot-Spots
  7. Hang up laundry?
  8. Clean MacBook, phones, laptop bag, hand bag?
  9. Declutter (10min)
  10. Write note in journal (evening note)

Before Bedtime Routine

  1. Drink 0,5L of water/tea
  2. Drink Actimel
  3. Remove make-up
  4. Wash face & moisturise
  5. Lay out clothes for tomorrow
  6. Brush teeth & floss
  7. Hands & nail care (10min)
  8. Record 3 good things & why they happened
  9. Lights out 11pm!

My Weekly Routine:
  • Monday:
    Dust
    – Change bed sheets
  • Tuesday:
  • Wednesday:
    – Visit P.O. Box
  • Thursday:
  • Friday:


get organised (read all 4 entries…)
Q: How do I eat an elephant? A: One bit at a time! 2 days ago
  1. Find an elephant (i.e. set a goal).
  2. Break it down. Break the goal down into small manageable steps. This will help me to stay focused and not feel so overwhelmed.
  3. Steps can be tasks or even entire projects.
  4. In the event that a step is a project, break the project down into tasks.
  5. Keep a task-list (todo-list) & have it with me at all times to add things as they spring to mind.
  6. Prioritise each step (project and/or task) based on how significantly it moves me towards meeting my goal.
  7. Schedule time every day to work on the goal. Do Priority A Work during my peak time of the day.
  8. Schedule Priority B Work (i.e. daily, weekly, monthly tasks, projects & appointments that are part of the work that must be done in order to maintain the status quo) after or between Priority A Work (because this work does not require high levels of concentration, it can be done during non-peak periods as long as it is completed on schedule).
  9. Identify what I need to get each step (project and/or task) done & get it.
  10. What’s the (or a realistic) deadline?
  11. Roughly divide all steps involved into an equal amount of work every day (allow myself more time than I think I need)
  12. Schedule in breaks.
  13. Reward myself with fun stuff AFTER I worked on my goal
  14. Keep track of my accomplishments with a tada-list. Update it every evening.
  15. Every evening re-prioritise & decide on 3-5 tasks to accomplish the next day. Focus ONLY on those tasks & complete them before moving on to new tasks.

Project A -> GOAL <- Project B
. Task (Project A) . Task (Project B)
. Task (Project A) . Task (Project B)
. Task (Project A) . Task (Project B)

REMEMBER:
  1. Taking action is essential!
  2. Visualise where I want to be in a month’s time, in six month’s time, in a year’s time & write it down!
  3. Say NO to time robbers!

List of references:
  1. my little (now steaming hot) head & everything inside
  2. http://www.ehow.com/how_5416009_eat-elephant-time-management.html
  3. http://www.ehow.com/how_4763224_projects-according-time-management-prioritization.html
  4. http://www.youtube.com/user/MakerofMillionaires#p/a/u/2/EuzlId8q2RA
  5. http://www.reply-mc.com/2007/06/22/how-to-eat-elephant-of-organizational


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