Well I am working towards my goal. I have made major changes in leaps and bounds. But to key is to make them stick. Not really sure if I will ever complete this goal. Since this is a goal that could change at the Blink of an eye. In my opinion if you consider this goal completed then your work will be done. Not true I have learned that being less selfish will always be a goal. I guess i should have made this goal to not be selfish at all. I think this is just a goal that will always be a task. For me the first thing and biggest thing that I had to realize is that I needed to put my wife and children ahead of myself. Especially my wife since she was the one that sacrificed the most. I am a Stay at home dad of 4 girls 15, 9, and the twins are 3. I never thought going from first to number sixth could feel so good. That was the easy part the other is for them to believe in you . when you are selfish you tend to condition the minds of your surrounding people to expect your selfish ways. When you make the changes there will be times when people don’t believe in you. Until you create new history to push the bad history away. I am sure it will be nice when they forget about the past. As for me I can never forgot where or how I was. Those memories remind me to appreciate my family even more. I owe my family so much I feel I will never make it up to them. But I can make a difference
natural2b's Life List
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1. be less selfish
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2. become better organized
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3. To not procrastinate!
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4. to take better care of myself so i can be around for my family
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5. Figure out how not to push my wifes buttons
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Well I am still procrastinating a bit but not to the extreme i did before. Things are getting done and it makes me feel good with the things I accomplish. I still have work ahead
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4 weeks ago
Well I am working towards my goal. I have made major changes in leaps and bounds. But to key is to make them stick. Not really sure if I will ever complete this goal. Since this is a goal that could change at the Blink of an eye. In my opinion if you consider this goal completed then your work will be done. Not true I have learned that being less selfish will always be a goal. I guess i should have made this goal to not be selfish at all. well at least that is the way i am looking at.
