I think the most important part of listening more and talking less is learning to watch the body language of the person speaking. This makes the experience more meaningful as you can pick up on the subtleties of what they are not saying out loud.
neil_w's Life List
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1. learn a new language
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2. Improve my posture
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3. come out
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4. be more social
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5. learn to SCUBA dive
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6. travel to europe
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7. start my own company
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8. go to law school
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9. read a book a week
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10. make a film
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11. play "I never.."
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12. Kiss in the rain
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13. To live instead of exist
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14. improve tennis ability
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15. create an art show
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16. stop buying things i dont need.
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How I did it: This one is easy. It's all about developing a habit. If you clean and organize everything so it is perfect, all you have to do is clean a little everyday or week to keep it that way. Pretty soon you will not be able to stand any mess and will have to get rid of clutter out of compulsion. It's sort of a self-induced OCD that comes from being in the habit. :) Read how I did it…
