oblea100x

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  1. 1. have smooth skin
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    4 people
  2. 2. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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    7,317 people
  3. 3. exercise regularly for a month
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    4 people
  4. 4. feel beautiful
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    2,217 people
  5. 5. try yoga
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    327 people
  6. 6. grow my hair long
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    3,937 people
  7. 7. Have a best friend.
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    521 people
  8. 8. brush my teeth twice a day
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    246 people
  9. 9. lie less
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    67 people
  10. 10. keep a sketchbook
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    231 people
  11. 11. learn french
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    12,435 people
  12. 12. live passionately
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    5,717 people
  13. 13. go on a road trip with no predetermined destination
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    21,232 people
  14. 14. become ambidextrous
    956 people
  15. 15. Pay off American Express
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    5 people
  16. 16. color an entire coloring book
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    44 people
  17. 17. get breast implants
    212 people
  18. 18. See Cirque du Soleil
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    236 people
  19. 19. save 15K for a trip to Japan
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    1 person
  20. 20. Write a letter to myself that I'll open in 5 years
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    154 people
  21. 21. see a movie in 3D
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    4 people
  22. 22. create a vision board
    265 people
  23. 23. learn not to interrupt or finish sentences for people
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    68 people
  24. 24. 20 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Sunday
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    75 people
  25. 25. get a pedicure
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    333 people
  26. 26. help my mom to be happy
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    6 people
  27. 27. memorize the periodic table
    71 people
  28. 28. write a book
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    30,182 people
  29. 29. do a sketch a day
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    2 people
  30. 30. drink 2L of water a day
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    11 people
  31. 31. Photograph 43 Sunsets
    46 people
  32. 32. Wash my face every night before I go to sleep
    70 people
  33. 33. Grow out my hair dye
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    20 people
  34. 34. have a great wardrobe
    29 people
  35. 35. get my own apartment
    660 people
  36. 36. study for a degree in history
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    3 people
  37. 37. Read 20 minutes a day
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    2 people
  38. 38. make a list of quotes that inspire me
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    8 people
  39. 39. finish "Foucalt's Pendulum"
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    3 people
  40. 40. kiss a woman
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    74 people
  41. 41. learn how to do my hair
    117 people
  42. 42. read 12 books in 2012
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    29 people
  43. 43. floss daily
    404 people

How I did it
How to get over him
It took me
1 year
It made me
chill


How to have a totally different life by this time next year
It took me
11 months
It made me
alive


How to watch "The Wizard of Oz" at the same time as listening to Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of the Moon"
It took me
1 day
It made me
sweeeeeet


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Recent entries
20 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Sunday (read all 4 entries…)
no light, no light in your bright blue eyes

1. What did I learn last week?
Bra size and corset size are different, but the cup should be the same. I now know how to tie a garter belt to my stockings.

2. What was my greatest accomplishment over the past week?
Cooking an actual breakfast!!!

3. Which moment from last week was the most memorable and why?
Trying on lingerie and feeling gorgeous. I’m hot, man.

4. What’s the #1 thing I need to accomplish this week?
Be patient, get my nails done.

5. What can I do right now to make the week less stressful?
Clean up, pack everything in advance.

6. What have I struggled with in the past that might also affect the upcoming week?
Taking my pills at the same hour daily.

7. What was last week’s biggest time sink?
The Snoopy fair game and ever so pointless facebook.

8. Am I carrying any excess baggage into the week that can be dropped?
Yeah, he’s not really into me. Just let go, move on.

9. What have I been avoiding that needs to get done?
Study…

10. What opportunities are still on the table?
My career.

11. Is there anyone I’ve been meaning to talk to?
No.

12. How can I help someone else this coming week?
Be patient and text her back.

13. What are my top 3 goals for the next 7 days?
-Pay the rent.
-Work out at the hotel/s.
-Watch at least five more of those videos.

14. What are my top 3 goals for the next 3 months?
-Stay strong.
-Read 3 books.
-Ace the exam.

15. Have any of my recent actions moved me closer to my goals?
-I broke down this morning.
-I didn’t read anything last week.
-I didn’t study anything last week.

16. What’s the next step for each goal?
-Just keep going.
-Read some more.
-Watch the videos & review.

17. What am I looking forward to during the upcoming week?
My days off. Wearing the lingerie for.. anyone, really. It doesn’t make a damn difference anyway.

18. What are my fears?
That I’m going to fail the exam and stay stuck forever. That one day I’ll wake up 30 years old with no kind of accomplishments or friends. That I’m going to become an alcoholic. That I’m going to be in an accident and lose a limb. That the airplane will crash. That I’m gonna get pregnant. That I’m going to gain weight and be obese. More rejection. That there is life after death and every ghost has seen the things I’ve done. That he is secretly a psycho and wants to torture and kill me. That he just wants me for sex. That the reason he’s so distant is that he’s married. That I’m not good enough to be loved. That I’m going to oversleep and miss a flight. That I’m gonna stay alone. Drama drama. It’s not a good day.

19. What am I most grateful for?
That none of the above has happened (that I’m aware of)

20. What can I do to make life more beautiful?
Quit fretting over things I can’t control. Quit screwing up. Spend Valentine’s Day with someone. Anyone.



Join a dating site
Walk walk fashion baby, work it move that bitch crazy

(Lady Gaga. who else?)

Oh goodness. I feel so lame for doing this. But really, with the amount of work and erratic schedules, I don’t have the chance to go out and meet someone in real life. Let’s see if this online thing finds me a match…



20 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Sunday (read all 4 entries…)
don't you know you're never going to get to France? Mary, queen of chance, will they find you?

(Blind Guardian)
1. What did I learn last week?
Dmitri Mendeleev is recognized as the author of the Periodic Table, but there were many chemists who published similar tables around the same years. The difference is that Mendeleev predicted that new elements would be discovered and their spots on the table, naming them for example, eka-aluminum. He even predicted the lanthanides, but left their spots blank.

2. What was my greatest accomplishment over the past week?
Paid my exam, got my prescription glasses.

3. Which moment from last week was the most memorable and why?
Being with mom because I missed her.

4. What do I regret from last week and what can I do about it/ learn from it?
Not packing comfortable shoes. Pack comfortable shoes the next time I visit.

5. What’s the #1 thing I need to accomplish this week?
Print out the credential, fill it in, figure out if I have to scan it.

6. What is the most stressful thing in my life right now?
Not knowing what to do on my days off/not having enough money saved.

7 . How can I go about improving it?
Decide if I want to go home or stay here. Get the last paycheck of the month and deposit everything.

8. What have I been avoiding that needs to get done?
Print out the credential. Study for the exam.

9. What opportunities are still on the table?
My career, my trip to Japan, moving with L.

10. What am I forgetting?
All my previous knowledge on everything I sort of knew. I swear I feel I’m becoming the dumbest person on Earth.

11. Is there anyone I’ve been meaning to talk to?
Not really.

12. How can I help someone else this coming week?
Be supportive of her (supportive with her? about her? AGH Goodbye proper English… see Q#10)

13. What treat will I promise myself this week?
I will go out and party and relax and not stay home fuzzing over my life.

14. What are my top 3 goals for the next 3 months? (February, March, April)
- Ace the exam
- Save money
- Work out

15. Have any of my recent actions moved me closer to my goals?
- Sooooort of? A tiny little itty bitty bit?
- No
- No

16. What’s the next step for each goal?
- Print out the study guide and go through each and every item on the list.
- Get my check and immediately deposit al of it.
- Pack my workout clothes in the suitcase.

17. What am I looking forward to during the upcoming week?
My day off.

18. What are my fears?
Failing the exam. Ridicule.

19. What am I most grateful for?
Inspiration, having a job.

20. What can I do to make life more beautiful?
Keep this place clean.



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