pickleweezle

I’m a bit worried about New Year’s Eve. Two years ago we spent it with my boyfriends friends, whom I’d known a bit before, so that was fine. There were some friends of them as well. Only thing is: there were about 15 people, and I was the only woman.
Last year my boyfriend and I had a romantic dinner and then went to go see the fireworks. There we ran into an old friend of mine (I see her every once in a while), and she and her boyfriend invited us to their appartment where they had friends of them over. We went, even though we didn’t know anybody. IT was a bit awkward, and we left fairly early (that’s to say after an hour or two).
This year we have no idea what to do yet, and my friend invited us to her party again. Again there’ll be loads of people I don’t know. My boyfriend never invites me to go out with his mates anymore so that would be kinda awkward too… Urgh… dreading it already! What to do?!

I had many friends a few years ago. Then I went to study abroad in the UK where I made many new friends in university. Then I came back to my homecountry for a holiday, and I met my boyfriend – now fiancée. So I decided not to go back to the UK (I was looking for a house with a friends, and had a job-interview waiting for me) and instead see if I could make things work with my boyfriend. Obviously, they did. But when I came back, I lost all my friends. They had all graduated, they all had jobs, and boy- and girlfriends, they moved to different parts of the country.
I had to take a job as a teacher here. Teaching hasn’t exactly been my calling… Also, I haven’t made any new friends at work because I’m almost ten years younger than the youngest teacher there. I feel lost!
I wanted to take up a make-up course so I could meet new people, but we’re short on money and we had to pay for my boyfriends course first.

This is having such a huge impact on my life! I feel lonely when my boyfriend is out with his mates, so I get angry, and I feel bad about it because it’s not his fault! I’m so scared that this will make my relationship crash… The soonest I’ll be able to do the course will be February… should I just hang on until then and stay frustrated????

I’m very jealous when it comes to other women. I was cheated on by my previous boyfriend and I have now found myself a wonderful man, we’re even getting married next summer.
But I’m very very jealous. I’m scared that I’ll get cheated on again even though I know he’s not like that, I’m scared someone will try to steal him away from me, because he is just so perfect to me.
I get really angry – even furious – when one of his exes invites him to a party, when he mentions their name,... even with girls he just kissed and never had a relationship with I get incredibly jealous. When there are girls around him I always feel like they are prettier and funnier and whatever… and I get jealous and bad tempered again…
This is a very unpleasant situation for him and for me, but I just can’t seem to help it. I’m trying Bach Blossoms but I’m not sure yet if they help. ..