Everyday my 2 toddlers are in my care and I find myself doing what I never thought I would do. Snipping, holding grudges(how dumb is that? Just let it go!), not seeing the forest for the trees. When they sleep like angels at night, I wonder, “how do I not always see what they need? why can’t I let it go? Will they turn out ok? will tommorrow be better?” Sometimes it is better the next day and it is great. Usually, it takes a whole lot more exertion on my part, but it is worth it for all of us. It is encouraging that someone else is compelled to be more patient.