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pinknkit




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  1. 1. Get through the next few months without going insane, deeply depressed or have high anxiety levels.Get through the next few months being gently assertive, giving myself some space & emotionally well !
    1 entry . 7 cheers     		1 person
  2. 2. buy a bike
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  3. 3. Practice random acts of kindness
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  4. 4. disclose 43 random THINGS about myself
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  5. 5. Grow old gracefully & disgracefully in equal'ish' measure..
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  6. 6. Beat my depression
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  7. 7. start postcrossing
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  8. 8. be more assertive.
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  9. 9. Post 43 of my favorite works of art
    1 entry . 5 cheers     		19 people
  10. 10. post 43 THINGS that at 43years old may seem childish, but bring me joy !
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  11. 11. Write entries for all my things.
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  12. 12. Identify and Rid Myself of 43 Items of Ãœberclutter
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  13. 13. visit my friends
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  14. 14. Take more photos & organise my images.
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  15. 15. Let go of negative memories.
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  16. 16. Start a Buddy Check 12 team here on 43things, in support of Breast Cancer Awareness. Do your self-exam the 12th of every month.
    271 team members . 2 entries . 3 cheers     		263 people
  17. 17. Celebrate with Adar as she is ordained as a rabbi on May 18th!
    		38 people
  18. 18. go to bed earlier
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  19. 19. Start a website
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  20. 20. Switch to reusable shopping bags for groceries
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  21. 21. Display all my doll collection
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  22. 22. Re-design my garden & buy a gate !
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  23. 23. Sing loudly a lot more & not care
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  24. 24. wear skirts more often
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  25. 25. sell things on etsy
    2 entries . 8 cheers     		117 people
  26. 26. live by the sea
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  27. 27. see the northern lights
    1 entry . 12 cheers     		13,726 people
  28. 28. Wish DJStroky an Accident-Free Birthday May 22
    		6 people
  29. 29. Take photos of 43 strangers
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Take photos of 43 strangers
Oooh can I join in ...? 20 hours ago

this seems like such a great goal, whilst a bit scarey too. It will do me good to get out of my comfort zone !
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buy myself flowers
Give to yourself : ) 21 hours ago

i buy flowers for myself every week.
I would rather go without decent food or other necessities than not have them in my home.
My Nan in her wisdom told me when I was very young ‘you are always rich when you have flowers’, they give you so much.
There have been times when Ive been REALLY broke but still bought a humble bunch of daffodils, that have cheered me when things were grim.
Buying flowers for yourself rocks !

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Get through the next few months without going insane, deeply depressed or have high anxiety levels.Get through the next few months being gently assertive, giving myself some space & emotionally well !
Find me a field.... 21 hours ago

in which to scream !

Ok. Things in my family are not going well.
My Mum’s ‘partner’ of 8 years died this week after a very rapid illness of a month in which he had bowel cancer.
My Mum is distraught.
Myself & my only brother never really bonded with him, but kept quiet about the snide remarks from him, because after all our Mum was happy & we are grownups.
Ive spent the week supporting Mum & helping all I can, which has been exhausting, but ok.
Unfortunately, yesterday his will was read & the S* really has hit the fan!
He has left a lot ( & I mean A LOT ) of money to one of my Mums grandchildren & not the others (She only has 3 !!!) For no reason any one can fathom.
He has left another very large sum for his only sister & nephew but nothing for the neice, from the same family!
He has two step-children whom he has left nothing.
And on it goes….Blah !
Without going into private details, its like he’s made things as bad for all concerned as he can.
My poor Mum is cracking up, some people dont want his money whilst others want to contest to get all they can !
My god,its a nightmare.
I am going to TRY to keep as objective as I can. I have no interest in the money or who gets what. It was his to leave, but I question his motives in not treating the children & his own family equally.
So….. I need some strength, space & normality to get me through the next few months.
Luckily my son & husband help with these things, but perhaps a few cheers along the way will help me too.
x

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Learn to pick locks fall in love with my husband all over again letter_d wants to identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money) take more risks not be such a recluse. make more money yoga learn how to make money fast and legally have more fun Lose 60 lbs get a scholarship see the world lose 50 pounds see more movies learn how to type fast without looking at the keyboard become an architect clean my fish tank own a house Watch all Bleach episodes Listen closely... wants to have the most fabulous underwear collection do pilates sleep less grow my hair get my period be a travel writer learn german go back to school