I'm doing 24 things
one down… Just waiting on the chance to run pick up a copy of the second one :)
pnklava's Life List
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1. get an apartment
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2. go camping
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3. Go River Rafting
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4. stick to a budget
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5. pay off my student loan
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6. Get new glasses
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7. lie under the stars with the one i love
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8. make a t-shirt quilt
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9. Send a message in a bottle
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10. Own a Tiffany's necklace
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11. travel outside the USA
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12. give 1234 cheers
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13. get engaged
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14. Kiss in the rain
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15. Read all harry potter books
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16. Have a family of my own
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17. try ten different martinis
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18. Stop eating fast food for 1 month
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19. fill up my recipe book with stuff I have actually cooked
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20. watch 100 new movies in six months
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21. make a time capsule
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22. hide 43 treasures
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23. save up $5000
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24. find a pen pal
578 people
Recent entries
eliminate select people from my life for 30 days and determine if they actually need to be part of my life (read all 2 entries…)
So, since the Mike fiasco I have grown as a person, and learned that my happiness should not depend on anyone but myself. Mike and I managed to create space and become better friends from it later on. I still felt like he was dragging me down though and moved on. After that, I had a long, drawn out 3 year abusive relationship which left me in shambles and raising a child by myself. Now, 30+ days later from him… I’ve let go and moved on. There’s no need to let anyone drag you down.. Including the people that you love without the return of said love.
That’s right. Immersing myself in work has paid off tremendously. Also, moving in with my grandmother helped out with the goal more than anything. I no longer have the time to watch tv, and I have gone way more than 1 day without tv. At this point, it makes me wonder what I was thinking when I made this a goal. Obviously, it used to be a problem…
