I suck at this so bad that I’ve given up! and people don’t hate me!? hmm, haha I’m gettin better now that I’ve realized though.
pnutrn09's Life List
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1. Be a better friend
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2. ask why so many people want to 'have', 'get' and 'buy' instead of 'be', 'do', 'learn' and 'know', and perhaps make a few people stop and think about it
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3. wake up when my alarm clock goes off
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4. Learn to be alone without feeling lonely
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5. stop being lazy
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6. be a better listener
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7. stop being jealous
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8. improve my communication skills
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9. Follow through with my goals
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10. learn how to prepare 10 excellent meals
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11. decide what the hell I would like to do with the rest of my life
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12. Remember names
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13. get tattooed
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14. Fall in love
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15. through hike the Appalachian trail
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16. Get more piercings
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17. speak spanish fluently
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18. learn to sew
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19. bungee jumping
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20. have nice abs
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21. get a dog
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22. stop speeding
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23. learn how to drive stick
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24. learn to skateboard
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25. learn to swim properly
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26. go snowshoeing
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27. pass the gmat
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28. get therapy
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29. pay off credit cards
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30. pay off school loans
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31. get mba
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32. save $10,000 for down payment on house
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33. write memoir
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34. stop feeling anxious
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35. identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money)
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36. work because I like to, not because I have to
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37. learn to let others talk, I interrupt too much
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How I did it: people wonder why im so distantly satisfied, if even just in my own evidence of happiness in myself or from the actual bond we were having in the moment. i seemed and felt diconnected. it helps to remember when to bring an aquintance past the boundary when they deserve it, make them your equal..or become theirs. if this takes too long people begin to question whether you care about them or that you don't care about knowing them deeper, m… Read how I did it…
I have a similar problem: Sometimes I can see other people get frustrated as I connect what they are talking about with something familiar that I have experienced and proceed to talk about it, quickly getting off tangent so by the time I stop talking, they don’t know how to get back to where they were to continue the dialouge back now. Not so nice, but I can’t shut up!
I don’t think I can do this goal, even though at one point I say to have completed this.. It’s hard to let people into the real me because people are harsh and will shoot down dreams I’m not ready to be realistic about. Also I am harsh in that I dont want to divulge to those not deemed to hear what I have to say. This comes in many forms but I don’t want someone elses standards to bother my brain.
