I know there are going to be some suggestions made to take a decision that really goes against my beliefs.
I want to be able to express my beliefs in a non-confrontational, harmonious and respectful way.
I also don’t want that decision to be taken.
I also want to make sure I am a nice easy colleague and they don’t end up thinking I’m difficult.
Say things softly and like an alternative.
Don’t ask ‘why’ questions
Don’t say things like “but surely..” “but isn’t that ..”
Say things in a nice soft agreeing sort of way
I wish I was better at this
it makes me upset :(


