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I was actually on YouTube, favoriting videos, when I came across Tori Amos’ “China”. Great, heartbreaking song, sang along with it back in high school. I scrolled down through the comments. Someone commented that this song was about being in love with “what we clinicians call a ‘love avoidant’”. Huh? Googled Love Avoidant (reminds me of my current relationship….) and one thing led to another led me to this site, to this topic. And now I am overwhelmed instead of just meloncholy on a Friday night.