I'm doing 41 things
Ok, I will admit that these reasons are not the best ever. But they are a start.
I don’t drink because I don’t trust people not to take advantage of me. I go to parties where there’s like 50 drunk guys and my friends are shitfaced and off who-knows-where. Therefore, for my own sake, I feel the need to make a responsible decision.
Plus, when I am always the DD, I sort of can’t drink.
If I were with a SMALL group of people who I trusted AND I didn’t have to drive home, I would actually probably drink. But it would not be to the point where I felt that
-groping a stranger’s crotch was acceptable
-making out with some random girl while the guys were getting all excited about it
-making out with my best friend’s boyfriend was acceptable
-I have no idea what happened the night before
-If I do remember what happened the night before, I feel that I didn’t drink enough
-I’m hungover every weekend and complain about being hung over, yet drink just as much the next weekend
^which is the people that I currently party with, on the rare occasion i go to a party
I don’t smoke because I’m really allergic to smoke. Same goes with pot smoke. Like I will stop breathing normally and I will just be absolutely gasping for breathe.
I don’t do drugs because I’m definately afraid of getting caught. This reason also applies to drinking as I am underage. I also don’t feel the need to inject harmful substances into my body.
I don’t have sex because I think that sex is something special. Once you give your virginity to someone you can’t get it back. My roommate last year had slept with like 5 different guys and I definately thought she was a slut because of it. I also don’t want to be pregnant at 19 or have a baby right now. I’m not sure I want to have a baby ever. While I go back and forth on whether I feel that sex should be saved for marriage, I definately think it should be saved for that person who isn’t going to care whether you give it to them or not. Someone who will love you either way and who isn’t going to bug you about it. If we’d been in a relationship for awhile and you asked ONCE I probably wouldn’t get too irate with you. But if you’re asking all the time, pretty soon I’m going to leave you for someone who respects me.
