this is really part of “clean up my house and keep it clean “
rosadioro's Life List
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1. Accept unconditional love
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2. not worry about what others think of me
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3. learn to love myself
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4. reward myself
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5. set up FLYlady routines
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6. clean up my house and keep it clean
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7. identify 100 things that make me happy (besides money)
2 entries . 2 cheers7,158 people -
8. find at least one thing each day that makes me happy
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9. freeze a month's worth of meals
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10. cook at home more often
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11. stop staying up so late
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12. drink more water
1 cheer18,982 people -
13. Brush my teeth every day
1 cheer41 people -
14. Pray daily
1 cheer422 people -
15. meditate daily
2 cheers3,980 people -
16. walk a labyrinth
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17. exercise regularly
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18. find a job i love
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19. find a boyfriend
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20. stop procrastinating
1 cheer26,964 people -
21. make a will
157 people -
22. Go to the library once a week
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23. remove the wallpaper from my home
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24. paint my bedroom, bathroom, and kitchen
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25. Spend less time fooling around on the net and more time actually working
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26. Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.
3 cheers270 people
Love 101: http://www.mcwilliams.com/books/love101/loveintr.htm
I am part way through it and it makes quite a bit of sense. My favorite part?
” There are two million divorces in the United States each year. Is it fair to estimate that for every divorce there are at least ten break-ups between nonmarried romantics? If so, there are, counting the newly divorced, twenty-two million broken hearts littering the emotional landscape. There are also twenty-two million (the ones who did the dumping) who are proclaiming “Free at last!”
And yet the majority of those millions, who now have already had first-hand experience that a romantic relationship doesn’t necessarily lead to a lifelong happy marriage, will again be jumping into the next acceptable pair of eyes, or thighs, that come along. “The person was the problem,” they tell themselves. “If only I find the right person.” Maybe it’s the type of relationship that’s not working. Maybe.
What does it cost us to fall for this myth that we must find another to love, and must (in the same person) find someone to love us? It costs us the loving, laughing, emotionally stable, intellectually stimulating, and physically satisfying relationship with the person perfectly qualified to be our best friend in this lifetime—ourselves. “
