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You get nowhere in life playing it safe, being just in your comfort zone.

I want my life to change. However, I am scared of pretty much everything. Most things carry a risk of failure and rejection and that scares me.

I occasionally do really courageous things and it does get easier, but I forget my strength and courage at other times.

I am going to be really brave. Every day I will do something that makes me uncomfortable and uneasy. Not dangerous life threatening things, just things I don’t want to do.

This is how I will build up my confidence, get used to dealing with rejection and change my views on the world to more realistic ones.

I have a few good friends and loads of acquaintances but I go through long times without seeing people.

I live alone and this makes me depressed.

I feel that I lack the self confidence to organise meeting up with friends. I feel that people don’t like me or are doing me a favour.

I would love to have a gang of good friends who I could see often and support and in turn be supported by.

I think I am a nice and fun and interesting person, but I am also overly studious and shy and competitive.

I find it very hard to initiate contact with people and to make the first move. Especially with guys.

I want to end the year with a bigger group of friends and strengthen links between the friends I have.

I don’t want to be alone on the weekends any more. I don’t want babysitting to equate to a social life and study to be an excuse for one.

I don’t want my excuses of the expense of going out or hosting parties or fear of rejection to stand in the way of being connected to people and in a community and happiness.

I need to work on this goal ASAp.

Any tips would be most appreciated!

I have long hair but I want it to grow REALLY long.

Mine is curly an reaches to my cleavage but I want really really long, preferably waist length hair.

However, even though I don’t cut it much, I can never get it to grow faster and longer.

I don’t straighten it or use harsh products. I eat ok, I’m not malnourished.

What would help?
Special food? Special scalp massage? Exercise?

WIll I ever be able to grow my hair really long? I heard it was genetic about the growth phase of individual hairs that people have?

Should I get the dr to check my Iron and other levels of nutrients as I also feel tired all the time?

Thanks does anyone else have a similar problem?