rubylangton




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  1. 1. finish my honours thesis by october
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  2. 2. take things less seriously
    21 people
  3. 3. Sketch more
    64 people
  4. 4. read more fiction
    114 people
  5. 5. trust my intuition
    133 people
  6. 6. Fall in love
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  7. 7. cultivate friendships
    15 people
  8. 8. be more social
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  9. 9. spend less time on the internet
    980 people
  10. 10. become more comfortable in large groups
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  11. 11. ask someone out
    195 people
  12. 12. write a film
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  13. 13. Be witty
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  14. 14. Complete "The Artist's Way"
    395 people
  15. 15. express my needs clearly
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  16. 16. Take a trip around the world
    136 people
  17. 17. not burn out
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  18. 18. Get my mental, physical, and emotional energy back
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  19. 19. Be grateful for what I Have and I don't have
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  20. 20. write a play
    598 people
  21. 21. Get first class honours
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love myself
It just happened... 7 months ago

After a few years of realising that I hated myself, I started to love myself. It came to me one day in 2006 that I do actually like myself. I will never forget the moment, I was sitting in a sterile classroom.

To love myself means that it is not about what I do or don’t do for others, it is not about being a good or bad person, it is not about other’s expectations – it is just about being me. Simply I do not have to exist for others.

I am a flawed person who will take responsibility for what I have done. I am far from perfect but I love myself regardless and the latter is key. A lot of it is about forgiving oneself and others for whatever wrong has occurred, and a good healthy dose of a fuck you for people who dislike you for no good reason.




 

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