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give a lapdance
Getting there

The only times I’ve done lap dances was when I was drunk. It was for entertainment, but there was never anyone on the chair. Hehe. Not drunk enough for that.

I’ve been practicing lately with new moves. Now, I’m just waiting to test it out on my friend-with-benefits.



Quit Smoking (read all 5 entries…)
Ready to try again

I had quit for three years. After the break-up with my ex of 5 years, I picked it up again, and I haven’t been able to stop ever since. I’ve been chainsmoking for 3 months now. I want to quit all over again.



complete 3000 min. of training on Nike Training Club
New goal: 4000 min.

Tried the new workouts in the NTC update.



become CELTA-qualified
I passed the interview.

I submitted an application to International House Bangkok last week, and had my interview today. It went pretty well, even though I didn’t answer one question correctly the first time. I’ll be getting an acceptance letter soon. Now to take care of the passport & visa, do some additional reading/studying, and take the course.



go to thailand
Flight booked

I’ve got my plane ticket booked, and I’ll be in Thailand for a month! I leave in 9 days. This shall be marked complete after I touch down.



survive my long distance relationship
3 years & 10 months together. 1 year & 5 months long distance.

We started out as friends with benefits. Then we got serious. He went back to the States. I still live in the Philippines. We’re still together. We always try to make time for each other online every day through chat, skype or offline messages.
I don’t know when we’ll be together. I’ve got a job and lifestyle that I like; moving halfway across the world is a big risk for me. I have to be completely dependent on him, which scares the crap out of me. I would break this off if I had a hint that he is leading me on. So far, he’s not. He wants me to move in with him. Legally, that would be difficult. I’m not considering marriage as a legal way because I have too much pride for that.
I’m still in love with him though, so I’d take that risk. If it doesn’t work out, I can make a novel out of it.



live simply
reformed party girl

I don’t keep up with the trends anymore. Not for several months now. I’ve never bought my own phone or laptop. They were hand-me-downs, and they still work great. I haven’t shopped for clothes or stuff (except a water-proof pack) since April this year. I hardly wear makeup. I stopped using SLS, so I only wash my hair with organic shampoo once a week. I quit smoking 5 months ago (still going strong), and I stopped going to drinking parties since last week. I cook a lot now, and I’m loving it. I’ve purged from 442 things to 186. I’m hoping to reach 100 before I move halfway across the world.
I’m still far from my ideal simple life, but I’m much happier now.



Quit Smoking (read all 5 entries…)
Day 150

Almost 5 months. Still marking this done after 6 months.
Started cold turkey with yoga and working out as ways to curb the cravings in the first 3 months. The cravings are rarely there, even when I’m drinking with chain smokers. I like my new simple lifestyle.



complete P90X
Day 90

I’m on my last day (Yoga X) and I skipped it because I was late for work. Also, I kind of hate Yoga X.
I never did the chin-ups and pull-ups part, but I always exerted on the other sets to make up for it. I didn’t follow the diet plan, but I did limit carb, sugar, and dairy intake. Overall, I still see results. I’m loving my legs. I’m doing this all over again, and this time I won’t skip a day.



Quit Smoking (read all 5 entries…)
100 days

3 months and 8 days. I’m marking this as done after 6 months.

How many of you still dream about smoking in your sleep? During stressful times, I still do. I practically chain-smoke in my dreams. Right after I wake up, I panic for a split second or so. I realize it was just a nightmare. Then I feel better for the rest of the day. Does that still happen to you, ex-smokers? How did you feel?



Quit Smoking (read all 5 entries…)
90 days

I started four months ago … not three. I prepared, psyched, and practiced in the first month. I didn’t just cut down. I changed the way I lived, ate, and socialized. A month later, I took a week-long vacation in isolation and stopped.

It’s liberating to have control over your urges. It’s the one thing I know that I have complete control over in my life. No one else. I’ve done it, and I am still doing it.



Quit Smoking (read all 5 entries…)
Day 60

I never thought I would get this far. People at work are shocked to hear that I’m still going strong without it and without cessation aids. I like making them feel like they fail at tempting me to go back to smoking. I can stand around smokers and not be tempted anymore.

I just started on the P90X because I have more energy now.



list 100 non-materialistic things I enjoy
100 non-materialistic things I enjoy
  1. playing with my dog Uma
  2. chatting with TB
  3. waking up and looking awesome in the mirror
  4. reading blogs
  5. sleeping
  6. sleeping-in
  7. doing asanas in the morning
  8. admiring the results of decluttering
  9. foot rubs
  10. feeling clean after a shower
  11. cold glass of strawberry juice
  12. making dough
  13. sharing a pizza with TB
  14. eggs benedict for breakfast
  15. dancing with a friend on the street
  16. grocery shopping
  17. watching people
  18. long conversations
  19. messing with excel sheets
  20. cold weather
  21. writing in calligraphy
  22. long naps with TB
  23. peace and quiet
  24. walking by shop windows and not feel the need to buy anything
  25. climbing the stairs at work and not get tired
  26. air-drumming to music
  27. sudoku
  28. making Rice Krispies Treats
  29. origami
  30. blending smoothies
  31. telling stories
  32. thumb-wrestling
  33. finishing a to-do on my 43things list
  34. playing with puppies
  35. sitting on my other dog, Spooky
  36. swimming
  37. each passing day that I don’t smoke
  38. baking oatmeal cookies
  39. repairing an old piece of clothing and making it into something new
  40. making someone laugh hard
  41. getting better at writing with my left hand
  42. not wearing makeup
  43. compliments about my looks when I’m not wearing makeup
  44. doing supta matsyendrasan
  45. street food trips
  46. playing Tic-Tac-Toe with a friend
  47. office pranks to cheer coworkers up
  48. breaks outside the office
  49. purging a belonging after “letting-go”
  50. hugs
  51. drawing
  52. jump rope
  53. playing board games with friends
  54. knowing the lyrics to a song
  55. transcribing drum tabs to a song
  56. getting holidays off from work
  57. roasting marshmallows
  58. hearing those 3 words
  59. making love
  60. the wind in my hair
  61. taking candid shots of people
  62. dress comfortable but sloppy and still get compliments
  63. daydreaming
  64. seeing a dog’s tail wag when they see me
  65. singing along to an old-skool song with friends
  66. celebrating graduation with trainees
  67. wearing pajamas all day
  68. making and drinking lemonade
  69. online chats with my dad and sis
  70. more space in my closet
  71. the smell of sauteed garlic and onions
  72. doing something nice for someone
  73. trying new recipes
  74. washing my face before and after bed
  75. a day to myself
  76. creative projects
  77. watching reruns of favorite shows
  78. organizing my closet
  79. lots of cream on desserts
  80. burping louder than my friends
  81. repairing stuff
  82. seeing a person do an act of kindness for a stranger
  83. cooking for TB
  84. graveyard shifts
  85. bare desktops and shelves
  86. squishing my toes in sand and water
  87. pinching the nape of people’s necks
  88. pinching chubby cheeks
  89. watching Uma sleep and dream
  90. rolling around in bed
  91. chopping fruits and vegetables
  92. smelling peppermint
  93. starting a new project
  94. exploring
  95. sitting outside and listening to nature
  96. random messages from old friends saying they miss me
  97. feeling needed when I get asked for help
  98. trimming my own hair
  99. eating a crepe
  100. giving away something that would be more useful to someone and makes them happy


do yoga again
Yoga to achieve 4 other things

I did yoga for over a year when I was going to the gym but I stopped going 2 years ago because I was in debt. I’m not renewing my gym membership but I started yoga again to aid smoking cessation. The breathing exercises help combat the urges. My body hasn’t forgotten the postures and I can go at my own pace. Another motivator is that this is a great way for me to achieve and cross off 4 more items on my list of 43 things.



go to the gym more
one year later

I’m still going to the gym. I’m stronger now and I finally have some meat in my body.



do something with my hair
Rebond

Sat for 5 hours at the salon to get it done. I miss my wavy hair but at least I did it.



renew my passport
desperate times

I kept putting it off since last year because I didn’t wanna leave. Now that plans have changed (parents and mine), I figure leaving the country next year is the best option I have. Finally I went down to the travel agency to register for renewal. My new passport will be arriving on May 1.



Fall in love
friends-with-benefits + attachments

I always thought I couldn’t fall in love again, especially after getting out of a long term one. Then I tried the “friends with benefits” thing with a friend I have known for 4 years. It failed because I got attached. So did he. We’re official now.



Become a virgin
reborn virgin

I abstained myself for 5 years. Never had to deal with the paranoia of missing a period or the scare of getting STDs. My decision to put an end to my abstinence was for personal reasons. I wanted the next one to be special and it was and still is. :)



Learn Filipino
UNfilipino

I returned after 19 years and I feel retarded for not being able to speak my native tongue. 3 years later, I can understand some but I’m still hopeless at it.



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