I'm doing 42 things
we’re fighting (hence, i’m distracting myself with this web site). but, in general we’re in the expanding direction. sometimes you have to contract in order to expand. 2 humans in relationship. I asked other women how they thought people managed to stay in relationship. they said—-people check out, stop talking, get passive agressive, numb themselves, become alcoholics, smoke pot, etc.
if we’re doing those things at all, we’re doing them minimally which is what makes it so difficult. couples therapy stopped and we now set up our own sessions 1X/week for 50 minutes with one another. we check in with ourselves somatically and witness each other. so far so good.
so, why are we fighting? the typical argument goes like this. when he’s crabby, i feel invaded by his crabbiness. we’re both working on our piece of this. blech.
sasheemee's Life List
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1. feel more at peace
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2. continue to feel energized and clear headed
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3. have a thriving practice
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4. experience increased pleasure
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5. have our union keep opening and expanding
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6. learn to partner dance
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7. have our perfect wedding
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8. have baby(ies) in a couple of years
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9. regularly visit hotsprings
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10. have strong boundaries
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11. buy an eco home in a nature filled area
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12. tour europe and asia
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13. improve my spanish
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14. bellydance
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15. finish TCM school
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16. self motivate to mobilize
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17. spend less time on the computer
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18. do more photography
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19. make art
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20. have our perfect dog
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21. have a vacation!
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22. travel to thailand
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23. pass the final comps, stateboards, and nationals
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24. grow my hair
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25. enjoy yoga
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26. be trained in Cranial Sacral Therapy
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27. love my hot body
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28. shine my inner light outwards
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29. become a midwife
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30. become a Level 2 Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner
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31. be a kick ass cook
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32. photograph our trees
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33. dress vibrantly
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34. be a redhead again
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35. get and stay organized
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36. be fluent en espanol
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37. continue to eat healthily
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38. drink more water
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39. breath deeply and fully
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40. have an abundance of money
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41. do chi kung regularly
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42. learn to belly dance
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